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2010-01-03T15:25:00.000-08:00

BODNUTÍ. Data: Slunce konjunkce Plejády. Merkur poškozený Martem.
22° Ryb nep_ízniv_ ozá_ený.
BOHATSTVÍ. Všeobecný signifikátor Jupiter, a vládce II. domu. Nejlepší
vyhlídka na bohatství jest postavení Slunce, Luny, Jupitera v rohových domech a
v dobrých aspektech mezi sebou a také na Merkura a Venuši. Trvalé bohatství
nastává, je-li dob_e ozá_ený Bod št_stí, jehož dispositor je nepoškozený a
v hodnot_, zvlášt_ je-li v elevaci nad šk_dci. Luna musí býti v dobrém postavení
k Slunci, ve spojení s dobrými planetami a v rohovém dom_. Charakteristické
stupn_: 6° Panny, 10° St_elce, 21° Panny, 25° Vodná_e, 26° Býka, 29° Lva.
N_kolik typických dat: Dob_e ozá_ený hrot II. domu. Ascendent ve druhé t_etin_
Raka p_i silném Martu, Ascendent ve Lvu. Slunce p_ízniv_ k Jupiterovi, Slunce
v X. dom_. Bohatství je tím v_tší, _ím více planet obklopuje Slunce v tomto
postavení. Luna v VIII. dom_ a p_ízniv_ k Jupiterovi. Merkur v konjunkci
s Jupiterem. Jupiter v I. dom_ a p_ízniv_ ke Slunci zvlášt_ ve Lvu a v Raku.
Jupiter v X. dom_ a v p_íznivém aspektu k Slunci neb Lun_, zvlášt_ — je-li
v Býku. Stálice Sirra p_ízniv_ k Slunci neb Lun_, Spica v konjunkci s hrotem I.
neb X. domu. Arktur nebo Vega v konjunkci s hrotem II. domu, s Bodem št_stí,
zvlášt_ je-li Luna v rohových domech. Jupiter v V. dom_ a p_ízniv_ ozá_ený
poukazuje na bohatství nabyté z cest, ve IV. dom_ na bohatství nabyté pomocí
ženy neb lidu, ve Lvu poukazuje na bohatství zd_d_né. Bod št_stí ve Vahách neb
ve St_elci a v I., IV., VII. _i X, dom_ poukazuje na bohatství nabyté pomocí žen
nebo p_átel.

2009-06-04T06:53:00.000-07:00

Tento způsob věštění se ani v nejmenším neshoduje s moderním přístupem psychologie ke snům, ale výborně ukazuje snahy starověkých věštců uhodnout ze snu budoucnost. Víra ve věšteckou sílu snu byla v té době mnohdy neotřesitelná. Ovšem už tehdy se našli vykladači, kteří tušili, že spíše než o budoucnost se jedná o splnění nevyslovených tajných přání. Zároveň věděli, že k správnému pochopení snu je třeba znát i širší souvislosti a životní okolnosti snícího, jeho problémy, plány, radosti a starosti . Do dnešní doby se zachovala zmínka o Alexandru Velikém, jenž měl při dobývání města Tyros sen, v němž viděl postavu tančícího satyra. Přivolaný vykladač snů dobře pochopil význam tohoto obrazu a vyložil ho jako „Sa-Tyros“, tedy tvůj Tyros. Sen vyjadřoval dobyvatelovu touhu.

Jak vysvětlovala sny antika ?

Základ antického chápání snu musíme hledat v antické mytologii a tehdejším chápání světa. Tehdejší představy o kosmu lze znázornit sledem soustředných kruhů, v jehož středu se nacházel známý svět, kterému vládl Zeus. Dále od středu ležely barbarské země následované mytickými zeměmi. Hranicí tohoto světa byl širý Okeános a za ním ležela říše zemřelých. Sny byly umístěny na kraji poznatelného světa na místě zvaném „demios oneiron“. Během spánku mohli, prostřednictvím boha snů Morfea syna boha spánku Hypnota, navštívit spící. Sny byly vlastně božím poselstvím. Vykladači snů „oneirokritikoi“ měli za úkol toto poselství tlumočit do srozumitelné formy. Tento obor „oneiromancie“ byl chápán jako věda a umění zároveň.

Antika se ovšem neomezila jen na pouhý náboženský výklad. Nad významem a smyslem snů se zamýšlela většina velkých myslitelů a filosofů. Nalézáme zde základ všech teorií snů, které přetrvávají do dneška. Teorie materialistické, analytické, lékařsko-psychologické, idealistické i okultní.

Již Homér rozlišuje sny na falešné a pravdivé, ovšem neuvádí jak je rozlišit. Myslitel Macrobius dělí sny na pět druhů. Na skutečný sen, který je možno alegoricky interpretovat, vidění přesné události v budoucnu, okulární sen znázorňující božstvo, insomnium beze smyslu a fantasma odehrávající se napůl při vědomí.

2008-11-26T10:03:00.000-08:00

BLÁNY v t_le. Signatura: Luna.
BLATOUCH. (Calendula officinalis.) Signatura: Slunce.
BLÁZINEC. Na pobyt v n_m lze souditi ze špatn_ ozá_eného XII. domu.
Slunce poškozené aneb Neptun bývá _asto v n_m.
BLEDNI_KA. Signatura: Saturn v Raku a v VI. dom_.
BLEDOST. Není-li projevem choroby, pak je odvislá od Saturna, jenž
oby_ejn_ má aspektární vztah k Ascendentu, jenž bývá _asto v Kozorohu neb
Vodná_i. Luna v Raku a v I. dom_ p_sobí _asto bledost v mládí, Neptun v pom_ru
k Ascendentu p_sobí bledost nápadnou. Totéž platí mnohdy o Plutonu. N_kolik
dat: Ascendent v Raku neb v Rybách, Slunce v Kozorohu neb v Rybách a v I.
dom_, Luna v I. dom_ a v Býku, Blížencích, Raku, Pann_ neb Rybách, Merkur
v Raku a v I. dom_, Mars v Raku a v I. dom_, Jupiter v Raku a v I. dom_, Uran
v Raku neb v Rybách a v I. dom_.
BLÍN _erný (Hyosciamus niger). Signatura: Neptun, Saturn, Jupiter, Ryby.
Hermetická signatura: Jupiter. Podsignatury: Saturn, Rak, St_elec, Vodná_.
BLOUZNIVOST. Je p_sobena poškozeným Merkurem ve Vodná_i aneb
Martem v VI. dom_ a ve Skopci.
BOB, (Vicia faba). Signatura: Merkur, podsignatury: Luna, Mars, Panna,
Štír.
BODLÁK, (Carduus acanthoides). Signatura: Mars, Skopec, Štír.
Hermetická signatura: Mars, podsignatura Jupiter, Býk, Blíženci, Panna.

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BEZHLASNOST. Viz: Afonie.
BEZHLAVOST. Bývá následek Luny poškozené Martem, zvlášt_ je-li
Ascendent v Rybách.
BEZMOCNOST. Pocity bezmocnosti vznikají, je-li poškozena Luna,
Venuše neb Neptun. Je-li poškozený Saturn ve XII. dom_ aneb v Rybách je
snížena d_v_ra v sebe. P_i silném Martu a slabém Saturnu vzniká nesprávný
odhad situace a z toho zna_né krise, i když d_v_ra v sebe nemusí chyb_ti.
BEZOHLEDNOST. Vada slabého Marta, Kozoroha neb Štíra. Nejhorší
druh vzniká je-li Mars poškozen ve vztahu ke Skopci a St_elci. Charakteristické
stupn_ jsou 12° Raka, 13° Skopce. N_kolik dat: Slunce v první t_etin_ Skopce neb
Štíra. Ascendent v Kozorohu, neb ve Skopci. Uran v první t_etin_ Býka. Pluto v I.
dom_. Uran ve Štíru v první t_etin_ neb ve Štíru a v I. dom_. Mars má vazbu
s Plutonem, Uran je v aspektu s Plutonem.
BEZPE_NOST. Na otázky ve_ejné bezpe_nosti soudíme dle XI. domu
mundanního horoskopu. Poškozený Jupiter v tomto dom_ p_sobí snížení ve_ejné
bezpe_nosti.
BEZRADNOST. Je p_sobena p_evahou pasivních prvk_ y horoskopu
radikálním. Pocity bezradnosti vznikají p_i nep_íznivých transitech Saturna
k radikálnímu Slunci neb Merkuru.
BEZSTAROSTNOST. Bezstarostná povaha je p_sobena p_íznivým
ozá_ením Venuše Martem, Martem v Rybách, Ascendentem v Býku, v Raku a
v druhé t_etin_ Blíženc_. Škody z bezstarostnosti vznikají je-li Merkur nep_ízniv_
ozá_en Martem aneb je-li poškozen 17° Vah a 22° Lva. Bezstarostné nálady
mohou vzniknouti u každého p_i nep_íznivých direkcích Venuše neb Merkura.
BEZUZDNOST. P_sobí _asto zle ozá_ený Ascendent ve štíru.
BEZV_DOMÍ. Nebezpe_né stavy bezv_domí zap_í_i_uje poškozený Mars,
Saturn neb Neptun v VIII. dom_.
BEZVÝZNAMNOST. Vzniká jako následek p_evahy negativních prvk_
v radikálním horoskopu. Luna je poškozena (zvlášt_ v Kozorohu), rovn_ž Merkur
nemá dobrého aspektu (zvlášt_ v Rybách). Srovnej heslo: Pr_m_rnost.
B_LOBA. Signatura: Luna, Venuše, Rak.
B_LOTOK. Choroba Saturna ve vztahu ke Štíru a obou k VI. domu. Luna
bývá v Kozorohu a VI. dom_.
BÍDA. Je následkem slabého a poškozeného Saturna. Slunce bývá
poškozeno ve Štíru. Bídu ve stá_í ohlašuje poškozený Mars ve IV. dom_. V ženin_
horoskopu poukazuje na bídu manžela Saturn v Rybách neb XII. dom_. Vzr_st
bídy ukazuje v mundanním horoskopu poškozená Venuše v VI. dom_. Srovnej
hesla: Chudoba, Majetek, Bohatství.
BIGOTNOST. Data této vlastnosti jsou: Luna v IX. dom_, Uran v Raku a
v I. dom_, Jupiter v Býku, Pann_, Kozorohu a v I. dom_. Ascendent bývá
poškozený ve Skopci neb v Býku.
BÍLÁ RUS: signatura: Býk. B IRM A. Signatura: Váhy.
BIRMINGHAM. Signatura: Skopec.
BLAHOBYT. Závisí od silné Venuše a Jupitera, zd_razn_ného Lva, Vah a
Ryb. 8° Ryb, 16° neb 29° Štíra a St_elce jsou p_ízniv_ ozá_eny. Luna p_ijímá
dobrý aspekt od Jupitera, _asto jest v X. dom_. Jupiter bývá ve II. dom_ neb
v Býku. Ascendent v Býku dává blahobyt v mládí, Slunce v Rybách blahobyt
ob_asný. Prací fysickou lze získati blahobyt, je-li Venuše p_ízniv_ k Saturnu, prací
duševní, je-li bod št_stí v Blížencích neb Pann_ a Slunce s Lunou ve vzájemné
p_íznivé vazb_. Bod št_stí v Býku poukazuje na blahobyt pomocí žen. Období
blahobytu nastává když direk_ní Medium coeli tvo_í p_íznivý aspekt
k radikálnímu Jupiteru.
BLAHOVI_NÍK, (Eucalyptus), signatura: Jupiter, podsignatura Blíženci,
Lev, St_elec.
BLAHOVOLNOST. Ctnost Jupitera a Ryb. Mars musí býti p_í-zniv_
ozá_ený a v hodnot_. Slunce aspekt k Neptunu, Vodná_ a Váhy jsou zd_razn_ny a
horoskop vykazuje p_evahu znamení vodních a ohnivých. Charakteristické stupn_:
11° Skopce, 12° a 26° Býka. Typická postavení: Slunce ve t_etí t_etin_ Raka
v dobrém aspektu k Venuši, Slunce ve II. dom_, Luna v I. dom_ a v dobrém
aspektu k Martu neb Jupiterovi, Venuše ve Vahách, Venuše v Blížencích a v I.
dom_, Venuše v dobrém aspektu k Saturnu, Mars na 15°—20° St_elce, Jupiter
v Rybách aneb ve Skopci a v I. dom_.

2008-10-07T01:08:00.001-07:00

BATAVIA. Signatura: Ryby.
BAYERN. Signatura: Štír.
BAZALKA, (Ocimum basilicum). Auto_i nesouhlasejí v signaturách. Jedni
ji pod_izují Merkuru, druzí Jupiteru. Nejsprávn_jší názor bude asi onen, jenž
udává jako hlavní signaturu Marta a jako podsignaturu Merkura.
BÁZLIVOST. Vada saturnská, ve vztahu k Lun_. Charakteristické stupn_
jsou 4° Vodná_e a 12° Ryb. Obecn_ p_sobí bázlivost Uran neb Saturn v Rybách,
Saturn neb Luna v I. dom_, aneb Saturn v IX. dom_. Záchvaty bázn_ zakouší
ostatn_ každý, kdo prožívá nep_íznivý úhel direk_ního Slunce k Uranu.
BAŽANKA ro_ní, (Mercuarialis annua). Signatura: Merkur. Podsignatura
Luna, Blíženci, Panna, Vodná_.
BAŽINY. Signatura: Saturn, Štír.
BEDLA. (Agaricus muscarius). Signatura: Merkur.
BEDRA. Signatura: Váhy. Bederní v_edy p_sobí Merkur ve St_elci a v VI.
dom_.
BEDRNÍK. (Pimpinella.) Signatura: Luna, podsignatura Mars.
BELGIE. Signatura: Blíženci.
BERBERSKO. Signatura: Štír.
BERLIN. Signatura: Skopec.
BERN. Signatura: Rak.
BERYL. Signatura: Luna. Blíženci. Venuše. Jupiter.
BEZ. (Sambuccus nigra.) Signatura: Venuše, podsignatura Merkur, Býk.
BEZCITNOST. Vada Kozoroha, je p_sobena t_mito daty: Luna
v Kozorohu, Saturn nep_ízniv_ k Uranu, Mars v Býku a v I. dom_, Mars v prvním
dekanu Štíra, Uran poškozený v Rybách a v I. dom_, Ascendent poškozený
v Býku. Charakteristické stupn_: 14° Štíra, 15° Panny.
BEZD_TNOST. Je p_sobena poškozeným V. domem, zvlášt_ — je-li v n_m
Uran. Slunce ve Lvu neb v V. dom_ nedává rovn_ž mnoho d_tí. Srovnej heslo:
D TI.

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2008-08-11T05:00:00.000-07:00

B.
BABI_KA. Informuje o ní druhá t_etina I. domu.
BABYLON. Signatura: Panna, Jupiter.
BADATELSTVÍ. Je projevem t_chto p_íznak_: Ascendent ve Štíru druhé
t_etin_; Mars ve t_etí t_etin_ Skopce neb Vodná_e; Jupiter v Pann_ ve t_etí t_etin_;
Uran v Pann_ v první t_etin_; Saturn ve St_elci, t_etí t_etin_. Zd_razn_né stupn_: 2°
Raka, Býka, 11° Skopce, 15° Býka, 18° Lva, 23° Vah, 27° Vodná_e.
BADEN. Signatura: Lev.
BADIÁN, (Illicium anisatum). Signatura: Merkur, podsignatury Slunce,
Panna.
BAGDAD. Signatura: Panna.
BALTIMORE. Signatura: Štír.
BALZAMNÍK. Signatura: Slunce.
BANKÉ_. Povolání Plutonické, se vztahem k Jupiteru. Medium coeli bývá
oby_ejn_ ve druhé t_etin_ Lva. Typické p_íznaky: Merkur konjunkce Jupiter v I.
dom_ za no_ního zrození. Merkur ve XII. dom_ p_i no_ním zrození a v X. dom_
n_jaká planeta. Povolání banké_e, p_i n_mž však jsou zna_né ztráty, p_sobí p_i
denním zrození Jupiter v VI. dom_ v aspektu k p_ibývající Lun_.
BANKOVNICTVÍ. Úsp_ch v tomto oboru a povolání bankovního ú_edníka
nazna_uje: Ascendent v Rybách, Medium coeli ve druhé t_etin_ Býka. Dob_e
ozá_ený Neptun ve t_etí t_etin_ Skopce.
BANKY. Pom_ry v tomto odv_tví _innosti prozrazuje v mun-dánním
horoskopu II. d_m. Je-li v n_m Jupiter nastává rozvoj a úsp_ch, Uran v n_m
p_sobí úpadky bank; bankovní krise zavi_uje poškozené novolunní ve II. dom_.
Je-li poškozený Jupiter v VIII. dom_ nastávají úmrtí v bankovních kruzích.
Jednati s bankami máme, když Luna transituje Blíženci, aneb III. domem našeho
horoskopu.
BARVÍNEK, (Clematis alba — plamének plotní), signatura: Mars,
podsignatura Luna, Skopec, Rak.
BARVÍ_. Povolání Saturnské. V horoskopech barví__ bývá Slunce v Raku,
Štíru a Rybách v X. dom_. Typické nativity: Denní zrození, Merkur v X. dom_
v úseku ovládaném Venuší. — Denní zrození, Venuše v první t_etin_ I. domu. Je
spole_n_ s Martem sig-nifikátorem pro povolání.
BARVY: Analogie barev k prvk_m astrologie jsou následující: Bílá: Luna,
Rak. Citrónová: Jupiter. _erná: Saturn, Kozoroh. _ervená: Slunce. Duhová:
Ryby, Merkur. Fialová: Uran, Mars, Vodná_. Hn_dá: sv_tlá Rak, tmavá Kozoroh.
Jasná: Jupiter. Kmitavá: Neptun. Krvavá: Mars. Modrá: Jupiter. Sv_tlemodrá:
Váhy, Býk, St_elec. Neur_itá: Neptun. Olivová: Saturn. Pestrá: Merkur.
Rudá: Mars. Rusá: Luna. R_žová: Venuše. St_íbrná: Luna. Šedá: Panna.
Sv_tlešedá: Blíženci. Tmavošedá: Saturn. Temná: Saturn. Zelená: Venuše,
Jupiter. Sv_tlezelená: Býk, Váhy. Tmavozelená: Kozoroh, mo_ská zele_: Luna,
Rak. Zlatá: Slunce, Lev. Žlutá: Slunce, Lev. Žlutavá neb žlutomodrá: Venuše.
— Smysl pro barvy jest darem silného Býka a dob_e ozá_ené Venuše, zvlášt_ je-li
ve vztahu k 16° a 17° Býka. Saturn ve II. domem je dobrým znamením pro
obchod barvami.
BASEL. Signatura: Panna.
BÁSNICTVÍ: viz: Literatura.
BÁSNÍK. V horoskopech básník_ nacházíme obvykle silného Merkura ve
vztahu k Neptunu, Jupiter bývá ve St_elci, Slunce v X. dom_ v konjunkci
s Merkurem, Medium coeli v první t_etin_ Ryb. _asto jsou zd_razn_ny 8° a 15°
Panny. Venuše neb Merkur bývají p_i denním zrození v I. dom_, aneb jest mezi
nimi jakýkoliv aspekt. P_ízniv_ pro úsp_ch p_sobí dobrý aspekt Merkura k Uranu.

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ANGINA (Angina pectoris). Obecné charakteristiky choroby: Luna ve Lvu
neb Vodná_i poškozená Uranem neb Saturnem, zvlášt_ v oposici neb v konjunkci
ve Vodná_i. Také Uran ve Lvu p_sobí náchylnost, p_idruží-li se jiné p_íznaky.
Typický aspekt jest: Slunce neb Venuše ve Vodná_i v nep_íznivé vazb_ (zvlášt_
kvadratura!) na Ascendent. Angina pectoris jest chorobou pevných znamení
zvlášt_ Býka.
ANGLIE. Signatura: Mars, Skopec. Západní Anglie: Blíženci.
ANTHRACOCALI. Signatura: Skopec.
ANTIKVÁ_. Povolání uranické. Viz: Starožitník.
ANTILOPA. Signatura: Uran.
ANTVERPY. Signatura: Váhy 21°.
ANÝZ. (Pimpinella Anisum.) Signatura: Merkur, Lev. Podsignatury: Býk,
Rak, Štír.
ARABIE. Signatura: St_elec, Venuše.
ARGENTINA. Signatura: Váhy.
ARGOT. V argotu si libuje _lov_k s Ascendentem ve St_elci, mén_ již ve
Lvu neb Skopci. St_ele_tí lidé nazývají vše zví_ecími jmény a jsou v _e_i dosti
nedbalí.
ARGUMENTOVÁNÍ. Sklon k n_mu mají lidé s Ascendentem neb
s Merkurem ve Skopci, zvlášt_ — je-li Ascendent neb Merkur v konjunkci
s Martem.
ARCHEOLOG. Sklon k této v_d_ p_sobí vazba Saturna k Uranu. Typické
p_íznaky jsou: Merkur p_ízniv_ k Uranu, Saturn v t_etí t_etin_ Štíra, Saturn ve II.
dom_ p_ízniv_ k Uranu. Uran v X. dom_ v oposici k Merkuru. Uran v X. dom_
tém__ vždy p_sobí zálibu ve starých v_cech neb kulturách.
ARCHITEKT. Úsp_ch v tomto povolání lze p_edvídati, je-li Slunce ve
Vahách a jsou-li p_ízniv_ zd_razn_ny 22° Vah neb 30° Býka.
ARCHIVÁ_. Úsp_ch v tomto povolání p_sobí Merkur v I. dom_
v konjunkci s Venuší.
ARISTOKRATI_NOST. Smýšlení toto je dáno silným postavením Slunce,
Saturna, Lva neb Kozoroha. Silná Venuše p_sobí touhu po zjemn_ní a odpor proti
všemu nízkému, silný Uran se _asto zvrhává v autokratické výst_ednosti.
ARMÁDA. O jejích v_cech informuje v mundanním horoskopu VI. d_m.
P_íznivý vývoj záležitostí p_sobí silný Mars, zvlášt_ je-li v dobré aspektaci v I.
dom_, nep_íznivý Mars v dom_ XI. Na pohyby armád lze souditi nastalo-li
zatm_ní Slunce ve t_etí t_etin_ St_elce nebo ve druhé t_etin_ Kozoroha, zatm_ní
Luny v první t_etin_ Blíženc_.
ARMENIE. Signatura: Blíženci.
ARNIKA, (Arnica montana). Signatura: Slunce, podsignatury Mars, Saturn
se vztahem ke Lvu, Skopci, Vodná_i.
AROGANCE. Typickým p_íznakem je Jupiter ve Štíru a I. dom_.
ARON (Arum maculatum). Signatura: Saturn. Dle hermetismu Mars,
podsignatury Luna, Saturn.
ARSEN. Signatura: Panna, Váhy, Býk, Lev.
ARTISTA. Povolání Merkurické, s vlivem Venuše a Marta.
ARTY_OK, (Cynara scolymus). Signatura: Mars.
ASIE. Signatura: Ryby. Spíše nutno vztahovati tento údaj na Malou neb
P_ední Asii.
ASKETISMUS. Obecn_ vlastnost Saturna, zvlášt_ oza_uje-li nep_ízniv_ hrot
V. domu aneb má-li nep_íznivou vazbu ke Štíru, aneb je-li v V. dom_. Typický
p_íznak je zd_razn_ní 4° neb 9° Ryb.
ASTHMA, záducha, je zpravidla p_sobena poškozením Saturna ve vztahu ke
III. domu, poškozením Urana ve vztahu k Býku a VI. domu. Jiné p_íznaky:
poškození Blíženc_, Saturn ve Lvu v konjunkci se Sluncem, Slunce v Raku neb
Kozorohu poškozené Saturnem, poškození 4° Panny neb Ryb, 18° St_elce neb
Ryb.
ASTIGMATISMUS. P_íznak: Merkur ve Skopci a v VI. dom_.
ASTROLOG. Nej_ast_jší p_íznaky v horoskopu astrologa z povolání jsou:
Slunce konjunkce Merkur v IX. dom_. Luna v Blížencích neb Vodná_i a v I.
dom_. Merkur v konjunkci s Uranem v I., III. a IX. neb X. dom_, zvlášt_ — je-li
Slunce, Merkur neb Uran ve východních znameních, Saturn v IX. dom_ p_i
denním zrození, Uran ve Lvu a v I. dom_, aneb Uran v IX. dom_ v nep_íznivém
aspektu k Saturnu. Medium coeli ve druhé t_etin_ Panny, neb v první t_etin_ Ryb.
ASTROLOGIE. Záliba v ní je p_sobena Merkurem ve vztahu k Uranu,
jsou-li spln_ny n_které z dalších podmínek. Ascendent v Blížencích, Lvu, Pann_,
Vahách, Štíru neb St_elci, zd_razn_ní 27° Lva neb Vodná_e, nebo 11° Panny neb
Ryb.
ASTRONOM. Povolání Merkurické. V horoskopu hv_zdá__ bývá Medium
coeli ve druhé t_etin_ Raka, neb v první t_etin_ Panny, 28° Kozoroha bývá
zd_razn_ný.
ATHEISMUS. Viz: Neznabožství.
ATHLET. Úsp_šný athlet-profesionál rodí se za t_chto podmínek: Denní
zrození, Merkur ve vztahu (konjunkci) s Martem v X. dom_ a v úseku, kde vládne
Merkur (znamení, tvá_, dekan, hranice).
AUDIENCE. Je dob_e, aby se audience u vrchnosti konaly, je-li Medium
coeli radixu návšt_vníka ozá_eno dobrými transity superplanet. Není-li této
podmínky, tedy nech_ alespo_ Luna mundánn_ tvo_í trigon na Jupitera.
AURA _lov_ka. Signatura: Uran.
AUSTRALIE. Signatura: St_elec. (Nep_ece_ovat!)
AUTOKRACIE. Je p_sobena silným Martem, zvlášt_ — je-li Ascendent
v Raku.
AUTOMOBIL. Signatura: Uran. Úrazy (ano i smrt) v automobilismu p_sobí
zvlášt_ Uran ve III. dom_ radixu poškozený Martem.
AUTORITA. Autoritativní vystoupení prop_j_uje silné Slunce, Jupiter, neb
Saturn. Typické p_íznaky: Jupiter ve Lvu, Jupiter v p_íznivém úhlu k Saturnu,
Saturn v XI. dom_, p_ízniv_ ozá_ený Uran v Kozorohu a v X. dom_. Autorita
panovníka závisí od X. domu jeho aneb mundánního horoskopu. Porušuje se,
když v X. dom_ mundánního horoskopu je poškozený Neptun, Mars neb Saturn,
zvlášt_ poškozují-li tyto planety Slunce.
AVIATIKA. Záliba v ní a povolání letce je signováno Uranem. Typické
p_íznaky: Uran v první t_etin_ St_elce, Uran v první t_etin_ IX. domu. Ascendent
ve t_etí t_etin_ Blíženc_; Ascendent ve druhé t_etin_ Vah; Ascendent ve Vodná_i
vždy p_sobí zájem o letectví.
AVIGNON. Signatura: St_elec.

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ALPY. Signatura: Lev.
ALUMINIUM (hliník). Signatury: Uran, Vodná_.
AMBRA. Signatura: Skopec, Býk.
AMBICE. Viz: Nároky.
AMETYST. Signatura: Uran. Klasická: Mars ve vztahu ke Skopci a
Vodná_i.
AMSTERODAM. Signatura: Rak.
ANALYTIKA. Pronikavou schopnost analysy prop_j_uje Saturn v Pann_
jako signifikátor mentálních kvalit.
ANARCHIE. Anarchisty tvo_í Uran, Neptun neb Mars ve vztahu k St_elci,
Lvu neb Vodná_i. Rozhodné stupn_ jsou 23° Lva a Vodná_e, 25° Panny a St_elce.
Jiné p_íznaky: poškozený Jupiter, Merkur ve St_elci, poškozený Ascendent ve
St_elci neb Vodná_i. Je-li v mundanním horoskopu poškozený Uran v I. dom_ lze
souditi na vzr_st anarchistických hnutí.
ANATOLIE. Signatura: Rak.
ANATOM. Smysl a nadání pro tuto v_du prop_j_uje Medium coeli ve t_etí
t_etin_ Lva.
AND_LIKA. (And_lika léka_ská, Angelica archangelica) signatura: Slunce,
podsignatury Venuše se vztahem ke Lvu, Raku a St_elci.
ANEMIE. Disposice pro tuto chorobu p_sobí Slunce poškozené Uranem se
vztahem k Váhám neb Vodná_i, p_i poškození 8° Lva neb Vodná_e. Obecné
charakteristiky dále jsou: Slunce ve Vahách neb Vodná_i poškozené, Saturn
poškozující Lunu, VI. d_m ve Vodná_i.

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AKVAMARIN. Signatura: Venuše.
ALABASTR. Signatura: Býk.
ALBANIE. Je signována Kozorohem.
ALBATROS. Signatura: Neptun.
ALEXANDRIE. Signatura: Ryby.
ALGER. Alžírsko: signatura: Rak. Alžír, m_sto: Štír.
ALIMENTY. Spory o výživné hrozí je-li v radikálním horoskopu Mars
v VII. dom_ ve špatném aspektu k Uranu neb Saturnu. Tentýž význam má Uran
v VII. dom_ poškozený Martem.
ALKOHOLISMUS. Horoskop pijana vykazuje vždy slabé postavení Slunce
a Luny; vodní znamení p_evládají u piják_ hloupých, ohnivá u veselých. Saturn ve
vztahu k nim poukazuje na pijanství jako na tajnou ne_est. V. d_m tém__ vždy je
poškozen Neptunem aneb planetou z vodních znamení. Klasický p_íznak je Mars
v Rybách poškozený Neptunem. Objeví-li se tyto p_íznaky, lze na alkoholismus
souditi i z dalších p_íznak_, jimiž jsou: Luna v Pann_, Luna poškozená ve Štíru
neb Kozorohu a v I. dom_. Poškozený (zvlášt_ Martem) Merkur v Raku, Býku,
Štíru, Rybách zvlášt_ v I. dom_. Rovn_ž Merkur v konjunkci s Uranem v Rybách
je nebezpe_né postavení. Venuše poškozená Martem, aneb ve zlém aspektu ke
Slunci v Raku, Štíru, zvlášt_ v I. dom_. Poškozený. Mars v Rybách (Neptunem),
v Raku, Štíru, v Kozorohu, Pann_, zvlášt_ v I. dom_. Saturn ve druhé t_etin_ Ryb
aneb v Býku a I. dom_ rovn_ž sv_d_í o sklonu k pití, stejn_ tak jako Uran ve Štíru
a v I. dom_. Ve zví_etníku jsou Ryby p_i poškození neklamným znamením.
Alkoholismus dále m_že zp_sobiti poškození 9° a 25° Býka, Lva, Štíra a
Vodná_e, dále 11° Raka. Smrt z alkoholismu m_že zp_sobiti Jupiter jako
signifikátor smrti, stojí-li osamocen a nepoškozen. Nebezpe_í alkoholismu
propuká za špatných transit_ superplanet k signifikátor_m vášn_.
Nejnebezpe_n_jší transity jsou Urana na Neptuna do I. a Plutona do XI. domu
radikálního horoskopu, zvlášt_ — je-li Uran v radixu v dom_ prvním.
ALOE (Aloes socotrina). Signatury: Mars neb Jupiter. Magická signatura:
Mars, podsignatura Venuše a Saturn se vztahem ke Kozorohu, Štíru a Váhám.
ALPINISMUS. Zálibu v tomto sportu p_sobí Ascendent ve Skopci neb
St_elci.

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AGITÁTOR. Schopný agitátor mívá obvykle Urana ve IV. neb VII. dom_,
Marta v poslední t_etin_ Vah. Mars tém__ vždy je poškozen.
AGRESIVITA. Obecným p_íznakem je poškozený Mars, Jupiter ve Štíru,
aneb Merkur ve špatném aspektu k Martu. D_ležitý vliv je též zd_razn_ný Skopec
a Uran. Zd_razn_ní vodních znamení p_i poškozeném Martu neb Uranu p_sobí
úto_nost ve slovním projevu, zvlášt_ tehdy, je-li i Merkur poškozen. Poškozený
Uran v XI. dom_ však tímto vlivem nep_sobí.
ACHÁT. Signatura: Merkur, Býk, Váhy.
AIS. (Ton.) Signatura: Vodná_.
AKADEMIK. P_edpoklady úsp_ch_ akademických jsou: Merkur ve II.
dom_ v konjunkci s Venuší. Denní zrození a Ascendent ve východních
znameních.
AKCIE. Pom_ry akciových spole_ností charakterisuje v mundanním
horoskopu XI. d_m, III. d_m charakterisuje akcie povšechn_, IV. akcie podnik_
d_lních, II. d_m techniku obchod_ s akciemi. V individuálním horoskopu
prozrazuje úsp_ch v t_chto obchodech p_ízniv_ ozá_ený XI. d_m ve druhé t_etin_ a
V. d_m, jak p_ímo tak i dispository. Mimo_ádný úsp_ch napovídá Slunce
v konjunkci s Lunou v V. dom_ bez jakéhokoliv poškození. Ztrátám nasv_d_uje
Slunce poškozené Uranem, aneb poškozený Jupiter v XI. dom_. Na úsp_ch lze se
dotázati horoskopem horárním. Spekulaci samu studujeme dle domu VII., pom_r
k akciovým spole_nostem dle domu XI.
AKROBAT. P_íznakem tohoto povolání v klasické astrologii jest Merkur
v Blížencích a v I. dom_ v konjunkci se Saturnem,
AKTIVITA. Obecným signifikátorem je Mars, zvlášt_ je-li v p_íznivém
aspektu k Uranu. Mars v konjunkci s Jupiterem poukazuje na aktivitou škodlivou.
Fysická aktivita. T_lesnou sílu prop_j_uje p_íznivý aspekt Marta s Uranem. Vždy
nutno studovat vliv Skopce a Marta. Je-li Mars na Ascendentu, aneb
v pohyblivých znameních a Ascendent je ve St_elci neb Blížencích pak hrozí
rozptýlení sil. Mentální aktivita je darem Blíženc_, Panny a St_elce, p_ijímá-li
Mars neb Luna dobrý aspekt od Marta neb Urana. Mars v dobrém aspektu
s Merkurem (mimo Ryby!) je rovn_ž dobrým p_íznakem. P_i špatném aspektu
aneb p_i konjunkci hrozí nebezpe_í ukvapení. Aktivita vojenská: v mundanním
horoskopu Mars v X. dom_ v dobrém aspektu ke Slunci neb Lun_. Dále viz heslo:
_INORODOST.

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AFGHANISTAN. Je signován Kozorohem.
AFONIE, (Bezhlasnost) souvisí s poškozeným Býkem.
AFRIKA. Je signována Lunou a Rakem. Severní Afrika Blíženci. Tyto údaje
nelze však p_ece_ovati.
AFRODISIAKA. Užívání p_ípravk_ zvyšujících pohlavní pud souvisí tém__
vždy s poškozeným Martem a Venuší. Klasické p_íznaky jsou: Mars ve Lvu
v oposici neb kvadratu_e na Venuši; Ascendent poškozený Venuší.
AGAVE americké (Agave americana). Signatura: Jupiter.
AGENT. Viz: Zástupce, obchodní.
AGITACE. Z mundánního horoskopu lze souditi na agitaci mezi lidem a
pod_ízenými nastane-li zatm_ní Luny v poslední t_etin_ Lva, aneb v první t_etin_
Panny. V mundanním horoskopu prozrazuje tento druh agitace Mars ve III. neb
XII., Neptun v I., III., IV. dom_. Poškozený Uran ve IV. a VII. má tentýž vliv.
Agitaci mezi d_lnictvem prozrazuje v mundanním horoskopu Neptun v XI. neb
Pluto ve IV. dom_. Protivládní agitaci p_sobí Saturn v VI. dom_, poškozený
Neptun v X. dom_ mundánního horoskopu. Agitaci ve vojsku prozrazuje zatm_ní
Luny v poslední t_etin_ Lva.

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AFÉRY. Na milostné aféry lze souditi jsou-li v radikálním horoskopu tyto
p_íznaky: Poškozený Pluto v V. dom_, poškozený Uran v V., VII. neb XI. dom_,
Venuše v V. dom_ a v konjunkci s Martem, Venuše v VII. dom_ v aspektu
s Uranem, Neptun v VII. dom_ a poškozený, poškozený Ascendent ve Skopci. Jeli
Venuše ve XII. dom_ a poškozená, lze se obávati tajných milostných afér.
V horoskopu ženy p_sobí tyto v_ci Slunce v aspektu k Uranu, lhostejno, b_ží-li o
aspekt p_íznivý _i nikoli. Na aféry ve_ejné lze souditi z mundánního horoskopu.
Neptun v IX. dom_ a poškozený p_sobí aféry v kruzích církevních, poškozený
Neptun ve III. neb ve XII. dom_, poškozený Uran v IX. dom_ pak aféry politické.

2008-06-15T01:42:00.000-07:00

ADOPCE. Klasicky p_íznak pro adopci do bohaté rodiny jest: Saturn v VII.
neb X. dom_ v aplikaci k Lun_. Jupiter západn_ ve dvojitých znameních. Dosud
málo zkušeností jiných.
ADVOKÁT. Styk a zkušenosti s advokáty prozrazuje v osobním horoskopu
IX. d_m. Opatrnost nutná, kdy direk_ní Ascendent tvo_í nep_íznivý úhel
k Jupiteru, anebo direk_ní Bod št_stí k Merkuru. Slunce v VII. dom_ poškozené
Saturnem v horoskopu radikálním jest obecným p_íznakem zlých zkušeností
s právními zástupci. Advokatura jako povolání: P_íznaky úsp_šného advokáta
jsou: obecn_ zd_razn_ní t_etí t_etiny VI. domu, Vah neb VII. domu; Jupiter ve
Vahách, Jupiter v Pann_ 21°-30°, Merkur ve XII. dom_ p_i denním zrození,
Merkur v konjunkci se Saturnem se vztahem k X. domu.
AFEKTOVANOST. Vzniká za t_chto p_íznak_: Poškozené Slunce ve Lvu,
poškozená Venuše ve Vahách, poškozený 6° Raka; poškození Lva neb Vah
v_bec.

ADMINISTRATIVNOST

2008-06-10T01:06:00.000-07:00

Tuto schopnost prop_j_uje obecn_ Jupiter
v první t_etin_ I. domu, za no_ního zrození a p_ibývající Luny. Jinak jest si p_áti
silného vlivu Slunce a Saturna p_ízniv_ ozá_ených Uranem. Kde b_ží o
administrativní schopnosti vojenské, je nutný vliv Marta na dobré postavení
Slunce a Saturna. Pro povolání administrátora je nejvýhodn_jší Jupiter
v konjunkci s ubývající Lunou.

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A.
A. (Písmeno.) Dle tradice starov_ké odpovídá živeln_ vzduchu, dle
st_edov_ké astrologie Slunci, dle moderní školy Merkuru (nep_ece_ovati však!).
V _íslech souhlasí s jedni_kou. Tón A odpovídá Venuši a Kozorohu.
ABECEDA. Vztah písmen abecedy k astrologických prvk_m byl chápán
rozmanit_. Nejd_ležit_jší analogie dle rozmanitých škol jsou tyto. Starov_ká
tradice: A-vzduch, B-Saturn, C-Vodná_, D-Mars, E-Kozoroh, F-Venuše, GJupiter,
H-Skopec, Ch-Rak, I, J-Panna, K-Slunce, L-Váhy, M-Zem_, N-Štír, OBýk,
P-Venuše, R-Merkur, S-St_elec, Š-Ohe_, T-Lev, TH-Luna, U-Býk, V-Býk,
Z-Blíženci. Písmeno Q odpovídalo Rybám. Tento systém se osv_d_uje ve
starov_kých jazycích, zvlášt_ semitských. St_edov_ká tradice: A-Slunce, BLuna,
C-Venuše, D-Jupiter, E-Slunce, F-Merkur, G-Merkur, H-Saturn, Ch-
Jupiter, I-Venuše, J-Venuše, K-Slunce, L-Mars, M-Mars, N-Luna, O-Venuše, PMerkur,
Q-Jupiter, R-Luna, S-Merkur, T-Saturn, U-Venuše, Z-Mars. Badatelé
moderní navrhují tyto analogie, jež se mnohdy osv_d_ují zvlášt_ s ohledem na
_eštinu: A-Merkur, B-Panna, C-Mars, D-Štír, E-Jupiter, F-Blíženci, G-Váhy, HVenuše,
Ch-Kozoroh, I-Uran, J-Uran, K-Neptun, L-Ryby, M-Skopec, N-Býk, OVenuše,
P-Blíženci, Q-Lev, R-Luna, _-Rak, S-Saturn, Š-Slunce, T-Vodná_, UVenuše,
V-Venuše, Z-St_elec. P_evád_ní písmen na _íslice. V moderních recích
lze užíti tak zvaného Klí_e Pythagorova, jenž zní: A-1, B-2, C-4, D-5, E-3, F-8,
G-10, H-28, I-15, J-15, K-16, L-21, M-19, N-26, O-8, P-77, R-11, S-20, T-6, U-9,
V-9, X-13, Y-50, Z-70, Q-27. _eská škola astrologická užívá jiné tabulky, jež se
mnohdy dob_e osv_d_ila: A-1, B-2, C-3, D-4, E-5, F-8, G-3, H-5, I-1, J-1, K-2, L-
3, M-4, N-5, OJ, P-8, Q-1, R-2, S-3, T-4, U-6, V-6, X-5, Y-1, Z-7. P_evádí
písmena jen na symboly prvních devíti _ísel a osv_d_uje se jmenovit_ v theurgii.
ABSOLUTNO. Metafysický smysl jeho p_edstavuje Slunce.
ABSTRAKCE. Logi_nost její závisí od silného Merkura a zd_razn_ného
Vodná_e.
ADMINISTRACE, viz: Správa.

2008-05-22T08:50:00.000-07:00

Subject: FW: Krádeže mobilních telefonů

> Předmět: FW: Krádeže mobilních telefonů
>
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>
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>
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>
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>
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>
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>
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>

2008-05-02T04:07:00.000-07:00

PS. In your last mailbag there was a guy who used the
c&f routine with his ex wife as practice and it worked to
get her interested in him again. I was wondering what
stuff he told her and how he did it. I'm very interested
to know his technique to see if I can get my ex wife
interested in me again.

2008-04-26T02:58:00.000-07:00

Hi David!

I just broke with my wife of six years. So I´m starting
the game again. I went to a club this past weekend and
saw a very nice looking girl. She was looking at me a
lot. So I waited around ten minutes and then approach and
asked her, "Are you shy or something?" She said, Why? And
I told her "Because I've been standing here for around ten
minutes and you still haven't said hi to me." As you can
imagine she burst laughing. So I said, Hey, I'm glad you
know how to laugh. She said, So, is this the way you go
out meeting girls. I said, Nah, it's that every time I go
to some place that have girls present they all seem to
get very shy around me, since I'm such a great looking,
sexy man, AS you can see. (Said with a wink).

She kind of blush and smile. We talk for around ten
minutes and I then said, Well, let me see if I can find
my friends around here, It was a pleasure talking to you.
When I was leaving I did your e-mail close and it ran
smoothly. She put her phone number too and a note that
said, "No, I'm not shy, call me soon, C."

E.Q. From Puerto Rico

2008-04-19T09:45:00.000-07:00

MY COMMENTS:

Wow, now I've got attractive 18 year old women who are
trying to figure out how to get men to talk to them.

IS ANYONE OUT THERE LISTENING?

I've actually met MANY women who say that they either
aren't approached often, or when they are it's the same
old lame, boring stuff time after time...

"Can I take you out sometime?"

"So you probably have a boyfriend, right?"

Or guys just watch with the "I wish I wasn't such a
total and complete WUSSY because you're very attractive
and I'd give one of my front teeth in exchange for just
one chance to talk to you" look.

Ugh.

In any event, YES, this stuff works on guys. In fact, it
works on just about everyone. Damn shame you even need
to ask.

2008-04-09T04:11:00.000-07:00

>>>MY COMMENTS:

OK, first of all, WHY THE HELL DIDN'T YOU INCLUDE YOUR
PHONE NUMBER?

I was just thinking to myself:

"You know, it sure would be great to meet an athletic,
feminine woman with a good job... maybe an architect or
something."

I don't know about the conservative, no cussing thing...
maybe I could adapt.

But to my credit, I'm NOT squishy, I have NO IDEA how to
make a strawberry daiquiri, and I hate purse shopping. I
do, however like to host an occasional tupperware party.

Think about it and get back to me.

Oh, back to your comments...

Thank you for writing in and providing another perspective.
I wish that more women would be as open and honest about
what attracts them.

I personally think that women like you who have their
lives together are too busy ENJOYING life to take the time
out to teach the mass of WUSS-BAG men out there how to
stop with the purse shopping and tupperware.

Thanks again for your email... I love sharp, honest women.

***QUESTION FROM A WOMAN***

Hey, I've been receiving your emails for awhile, and have
been thinking, does this stuff work on guys as well? I'm
an attractive 18 yr old, and I don't often have problems
attracting males attention, but that’s about it. I don't
often get approached in clubs/bars, just looked at from
afar. Do guys think woman are promiscuous etc if they
make the first move? I mean does that kind of confidence
in a woman scare men off? A little help would be most
appreciated!

Ta!

JD
New Zealand

2008-04-07T05:49:00.000-07:00

***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave,

You are the Man! It took me about a month of reading
and re-reading your book. I am (was) very shy. I really
think it was more a lack of self confidence than shy. I
think I was using the word shy because I didn't want to
admit or didn't understand that it was a lack of self
confidence. I set a target date of when I was going to
let my inhibitions go and put my (your) plan to work. I
got more email addresses and phone numbers in 3 hours
than I got in 3 years. Just felt compelled to write and
say Thanks.

Hope to see you in NY
E.M. in Va.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I love letters like this one. Good for you!

It sounds to me like the process of getting this area of
your life handled has you pretty excited. Let it spill over
into the other areas of your life.

Great job!

***COMMENT FROM WOMAN***

Dear David,

Remember the woman that had a friend that wanted to slap
the sh** out of you - you know, the crack pipe chick? That
woman was right about one thing - someone needs to get
slapped.

She does and so do all of her milk toast, clueless and
probably dog-ugly friends! How in the world did she get
"lesbian" twisted into all of that? I read the e-mail for
crying out loud, and it sounds to me like this girl's in a
slump that makes the Devil Rays look like World Series
contenders.

Injure a woman's delicate psyche? Give me a break. I hope
you guys out there don't believe a word of this girl's
whiny crap. If your girlfriends agree with her, I hope you
don't mind turning squishy and you better find a good
recipe for strawberry daiquiris and start planning for a
life filled with tupperware parties and purse shopping.

Let me set all of you guys straight who might still
possibly be on the fence at this point. Get David's book.
I haven't read it yet - I'm still crackin' up over the
newsletter. I'm an attractive woman architect who works
in a man's world and would have it no other way! I'm
athletic, but still feminine. I'm pretty conservative and
don't cuss (anymore) so I'm proof that it's not just the
rough women that get turned on by the sport of a
challenging male. David's right - I have a lot of male
friends and most of them want to be more than friends. I
could never put my finger on it before I started reading
David's newsletters - they were nice and I've certainly
dated guys that weren't nearly as good looking as them,
but it's clear to me now. My guy friends are wusses.
Cocky + funny = SEXY! Don't ask me why, just do it. I
wish more of you would.

By the way, David, the chicks out here that read (and
appreciate) your newsletter, need a formula, too.

Sincerely,

ks in Kansas City

2008-04-02T05:21:00.000-07:00

MM
Kentucky

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Wow, another guy who my heart goes out to.

I need to write a book called "Cut Your Dating In Half: A
guide for guys who are too successful with my materials."

I think what you need to do is get together with her and
say: "Look, you're acting like we're married, and you need
to cool it. I think you're great, but I'm not interested
in a relationship right now, so if you want to keep seeing
me, then you're going to need to chill."

I realize that it sounds a little bit harsh, but it's the
truth, and you need to be direct in a situation like this
one.

...and this about wraps it up.

If you're reading this right now and thinking to yourself:
"I'd sure like to have problems like that", then I'd
recommend that you go and download a copy of my online
eBook "Double Your Dating". You can download it directly
to your computer and be reading in a few minutes. Go to:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/ebook/

...to download it now.

And I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

***If you'd like to send me a Success Story, Question,
or Comment, follow these guidelines***

1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs max.

2) Tell me what's working for you before you ask your
question. I appreciate all of the "Your stuff is great"
and "I don't need to tell you how well your stuff works"
comments, but the fact is that I DO need to hear all of
the specifics... because this helps other guys to see
what's working in different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write "Success Story" in
the subject line of the email. I read these first.

4) At the end of the email, give me your initials and tell
me where you're from.

5) I love emails from women!

6) Send it to me at:

SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com

MAILBAG: AMAZING SPECIFIC DIALOGUE EXAMPLES
THE MAILBAG: Amazing Specific Examples Of What To Say To
Women... Cocky and Funny For Many Situations

This is a world-record Mailbag. The longest (and maybe the
best) one ever. Enjoy!

2008-03-27T05:40:00.000-07:00

***QUESTION***

Hey Dave,

I got your e-mails for about a month before i actually
bought the books and I regret waiting so long. I have never
been so confident around women. I stand as a security guard
at the entrance of a retail store and 8's, 9's, and some 10's
pass by me everyday. I used to turn my head and stare away.
Now I know what they want from reading your book and I can
look at them, talk to them, and bust their balls even without
ever meeting them.

I do have a problem though. I took this beautiful girl
out on a first date, the C&F technique worked so well all
night from the movie to the dinner to the goodnight kiss
(tongue included) that we both definitely wanted a 2nd date.
So what's the problem. She can't stop thinking about me or
leaving me alone. I'm getting 10 text messages a day from
this girl that I really only want to date a few times. I'm
enjoying this bein single dating around and she wants me to
be with her everyday. How can I slow this down, without
losing the C&F personality?

Thanks Dave.

2008-03-25T06:06:00.000-07:00

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I'm going to have to guess at a few things, but I'll give
it a shot.

From the sounds of it, you need to:

1) Stop with the "I had a good time" type comments when
you call for a follow up. You might experiment with
waiting longer to call... or waiting less time to call.
See what works best for you. But don't be so "nice".

2) Do more things to make your date feel ATTRACTION. Use
what you've learned to really turn the dial up. You might
test progressing further on the first date... maybe start
getting physical faster.

3) Make sure you keep her laughing, and keep busting on
her and treating her like a "friend" at first. Remember
the idea of acting like she's your Bratty Little Sister.

It sounds like you're doing something on those first
dates that's making the women resistant to seeing you
again... you need to figure out what it is and STOP IT.

***QUESTION***

David,

On vacation in Mexico, a girl asked me if she was "super
hot" and I said "Yeah, you're alright." Next thing you know
she made it her business to prove to me how hot she was,
including some freaky dancing, even flashing me, and a
little lip action. Moral: Never give them what the want. I
moved in to kiss a girl a little too early and she backed
away. So I went back to teasing her and on the next attempt
I went straight for the neck, ears, hands in hair and well
you wouldn't believe it; but it worked that time. Your book
has a lot of very good information, thank you for putting it
together. So here's my question: This girl at my gym is of
those that I've always wanted to talk to but never really
had the chance. She was bartending the other night and I
told her I'd seen her at the gym. She said "yeah, but I
don't make it in there as much lately." I replied "Yeah, I
can tell, you're really letting yourself go." Then she gives
me a shot and asks me if I'd help her with her workout." She
also said she remembered me from the gym and I said "So you
were checking me out?" So I get her number, not bad, eh? So
I'm in the bar for another hour with some friends and I was
going to order a drink from her later, but it might've
seemed like I wanted to talk to her again. She seemed busy
and didn't look at me. Seemingly wuss behavior or she's just
busy? Who knows. That was on Saturday and I called her on
Wednesday, still no reply and today is Friday. I'm thinking
either calling her once more over the weekend, asking about
playing hard to get and if she just randomly gives out
shots, or maybe going back to her bar in a week or two with
some friends. Again, thank you for all you've done and
thanks in advance for any suggestions.
A.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I'm going to tell you something here, and leave it to you
to figure out why it's important:

YOU SHOULD HAVE LEFT RIGHT AFTER YOU GOT HER NUMBER.

This is SUPER ULTRA EXTRA important... and I want you to
consider it in your mind until you figure out why.

2008-03-19T09:53:00.000-07:00

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Wow, more priceless wisdom.

To answer your question, the way to see more than one
woman at a time is to NOT SEE ANY OF THEM TOO OFTEN.

When you see or talk to a woman more than once or twice
a week, it kicks in the natural "relationship" emotions
and patterns of communication and behavior.

If you keep things to once a week, and sometimes twice,
you'll tend to avoid this.

It's also good to tell the women that you're seeing that
you don't think it's a good idea to get into a relationship
too quickly with someone you just met (I believe this is
a very important idea, myself).

Thanks for the great ideas.

***QUESTION***

Hi David,

I thoroughly enjoyed reading your book...very enlightening.
I've always found myself attracting girls I'm not
romantically interested in, while crashing and burning with
the hotties. It was very confusing until I read your book.
I realize now that I was a wuss with the hotties by being a
typical "nice guy", and that the more I acted indifferent
with the girls I didn't like, the more they ate it up. You
gave me a new perspective on what makes attraction work,
and I'm glad to see that your book pointed out that you
don't have to be a jerk to be successful.

My game has improved but it still requires some refining.
Lately I find I'm stalling out between the first and second
date. So I'm wondering if I'm screwing up the date itself or
the follow-through. Here are the steps I take after a date:

1) I call within two days to say I had a good time and
basically make contact. I end the conversation first, and
let her know I'll give her a shout in a couple days...just
so I don't seem like I'm rushing into a second date.

2) I let two or three days pass and call to make
arrangements for a second date. At this point I usually
get a vague answer like "lets set something up for next
week"...and then it never happens.

Where is this falling apart and what kind of follow-through
do you use?

Thanks for the help,

SF
London, Ontario

2008-03-17T06:20:00.000-07:00

***QUESTION***

Dave:
I downloaded your book a couple months ago, and read your
newsletters regularly. I have had success with women and
it's great. Here's my question. It's a common fact that
humans never stop learning, and you are no exception. What
new information have you learned recently that can
supplement the book? Can your subscribers expect a follow-up
booklet in the near future? I don't mean to be ungrateful
but now that I have read your book I feel like the most
well-informed man in the dating game. Knowledge is power and
the more I have the more power I have. Watch out ladies!!!
Can you help me out? I know you have the knowledge
thanks a lot

G- Texas

>MY COMMENTS:

***QUESTION***

Yes Dave, you are 100% correct. Even us older, fatter,
grayer, slower wusses can learn new tricks. I went from a
4 time loser to being called biggest old stud in town! Now
that was a hell of an ego boost! Especially since I'm 48
and close to 300 lbs. and yes, at the moment, I have steady
dates for 3 days of the week every week and 5 others
professing their love for me if only I will come take them
away.

Here are what I found to work:

1) Women over 35 expect you to be extremely inventive with
a cocky funny line or extremely truthful. They all claim it
is because they have had so many used on them, they are
totally immune to them. I tend to go the extremely truthful
route. the ie. you look like the type of woman who would
like a funny witty, intelligent, romantic friend. Have you
found any lately??? I want to shake their hand. Or something
similar.

2) If you are emailing back and forth and they want your
picture within the first couple of exchanges, run do not
walk, that lady to the discard pile immediately. Most of
those are so shallow they can not and will not see what
they are doing, no matter how funny and blunt you are. I
even tried the "what’s in it for me?" line, only to get the
reply of "me stupid, but only if I like your picture"

3) When the lady says I don't think I'm really your type,
you look them straight in the eye and say "ok, plenty more
where you came from" and turn and walk away. 9 out of 10
of them will be calling you in 48 hours.

4) They all know about arranging dates for the week and
finding the dates on the weekend. So tell them you only
have like Friday, Saturday OR Sunday open but not all.
Most will tell you to rearrange your week to fit them in.
The ones really really interested will call you on Saturday
to see if you can go out on the spur of the moment.

5) I tell them all I am too much to handle and too much to
love, so being friends is just perfect. But I have zero
experience in this dating more than one woman thing at a
time. Do you have any advice. Especially since I am sure
to make a lot of mistakes. Yeah, they all want to arrange
more time with me.

So you see, your techniques work. Even my 21 y/o daughter
who reads these occasionally says, "I can't agree all the
way, but damn he sure got the last 5 guys I dated nailed"

Keep up the good work Dave.

M.

2008-03-13T09:09:00.000-07:00

This has the effect of making you a lot more picky about
what you'll tolerate... and it makes you see negatives
a lot more clearly in women.

Again, I think you're doing fine. Just stick with it
and you'll find a great woman to marry again, if that's
what you want.

***QUESTION***

Hi Dave.
I don't think the cocky/funny technique will work for me.
I'm 19 y/o, 5' 3" and 117 lb. I have an average build, dark
hair and blue eyes. I also have a fetish for girls with big
bellies. What do you think? Be honest.

SO

Birmingham, England

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, if I can get myself to stop laughing, maybe I can
answer you!

OK, let's make sure I have the facts straight here...

You're five foot three, weigh 117, and LIKE WOMEN WITH
BIG BELLIES?

Honestly, I think you're right... I don't think that the
Cocky and Funny technique will work for you... in fact

...I DON'T THINK ANYTHING IS GOING TO WORK FOR YOU.

Make sure you don't tell any of your other guy friends
about this. It might get ugly.

By the way, you may not have considered this, but women
with big bellies usually got them from eating a lot...
and my guess is that they might be expensive dates.

Watch out.

***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave:

Dated someone for 4 years. Turned into a wussy boy a couple
times, and both times she left me for the same guy. This guy
was a selfish, conceited jerk, but he was the ONLY guy she's
ever dated who she couldn't wrap around her finger. He was
an impossible challenge...and so her sexual attraction to
him was enormous. (Hmmm...is there a lesson to be learned
here...?) Since we broke up about a year ago, I've been
reading your newsletters and your ebooks. Now I'M the
challenging one. I don't flatter women with compliments, I
don't buy drinks or flowers, I split the dinner tab, I
don't always call (or call back) every day, I keep my social
life busy and interesting. And I never ever EVER lose my
composure with a woman - no matter how much I'm attracted to
them. (In truth: I caved to one woman, told her how
attracted I was to her, and instantly found myself in the
"just friends" pit of no return. Oops. Had to learn the
hard way.) Now every time a woman tries to test my level of
"wussiness" I completely annihilate them with a cocky+funny
comment...and they LOVE me for it. And...of course...guess
who suddenly wants to date me again...

Thanks D,
M.S.
Chicago

P.S. Took this off the end of the 1st paragraph above...it
was getting too long, but I love this perspective from a
woman: While investigating this illogical phenomenon, I
asked a somewhat-attractive female friend of mine "so...can
you shed any light onto the whole 'why women are attracted
to jerks' idea?" And her answer (quote): "Because we're
too leary of a nice guy. Nice guys creep me out. They seem
like I can walk all over them and I hate that. Women want
a bit of a challenge."

>>>MY COMMENTS:

This is truth from the mountain. Read it 100 times a day.

Print it and tape it to your computer monitor.

Put a copy in your wallet... next to the money so you see
it often.

Put one on your car sun visor and mirror.

And go read it again now.

2008-03-11T04:09:00.000-07:00

After being
recently divorced (Dec/01) after 24 yrs and thoroughly
confused about dating and what women want. I bought
[another dating book] and was even more scared to do any of
what was asked to do. I bought your course and coupled with
watching the players in clubs I knew C&F was the answer.
I used it successfully on over (9) women since Jan/02 all
resulting in them wanting much, much more* than I was
willing to give. They all call from time-to-time for fun!.

*Here is where I have the problem and it might help others
trying for this type of relationship. I am single and love
my Space and I want to have fun for a while and eventually
marry again I’m looking for Her and it takes a while to see
if she is Her I get them hooked way too fast and not trying
to do so This is how: Women are attracted to C&F, They want
fun and excitement; I think I know why they want funny for
the fun things to do in life (too many boring guys out
there) and the cocky part piques their inner flames to what
could happen as far as passion. If when you are passionate
with them you have to be a Leader and show them as bad a boy
as they can handle. This has in all instances so far lead
them to call me and pursue me: the next day and weeks ahead.
They want a far deeper relationship. They want C&F in their
lives. These are not clingy people (7-9’s)(24-44yrs) and
profess to want to be friends first. Email is great as it has
a way of helping them say things they wished they could say
in person. Do you have any wisdom on how to do C&F and not
hit all of her senses?

Thanks Again for C&F
J.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

lol... you poor, poor dear. Sounds tough, really.

I think you're doing fine. You're on the right track, and
I think that you're going to find an outstanding woman to
have a longer-term relationship with.

I personally think that the problem isn't the techniques
you're using, it's that you're now seeing that YOU CAN
CHOOSE A WOMAN, rather than having HER CHOOSE YOU... and
it's making you far more SELECTIVE than you were in the
past.

When you're seeing several attractive women at the same
time, you begin to realize that you can have whatever
you want. You no longer have to settle.

2008-03-04T10:23:00.000-08:00

***QUESTION***

Dear Dave,

I'm real sorry but I still cannot figure out how to build
bridges after getting the email address. Normally the next
day I send the lady an email, she replies and then I can't
think what on earth else to do. My overall goal is to get
with her - so can you help me man?

I.M.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yes, I think I can help.

1. Set up a meeting for tea.
2. Have her stop by your place on the way to tea.
3. Have fun, interesting conversation.
4. Invite her back to your place.
5. Use the Kiss Test.
6. Use your creativity and imagination.

Don't focus too much on "getting with her", just focus on
getting to THE NEXT STEP.

In other words, when you email don't say something like:

"Hi, it was great meeting you. I'm single and nice, and
you seem like you'd make a great girlfriend for a sweet,
desperate loser like myself."

Stay off of heavy conversation. Don't talk about
relationships and marriage, etc. Just talk and enjoy
yourself. But keep progressing as you do.

As long as you relax and make each progressive step
easy and natural, you'll be fine.

Again, just take it one step at a time.

***QUESTION***

Hi David:

I’m 42 and a bald, average, confident guy.

2008-02-23T05:17:00.000-08:00

„Někteří z nás byli potěšeni, když se dozvěděli, že jste opustil vyslanectví. To, že jste tam byl zavřený, bylo mrhání vaším talentem.“
„Ó, můj talent.“ Esdan odmítavě pokrčil rameny, až ho zabolela. Bolest si užije později. Právě teď se baví. Měl rád bojovné debaty.
„Jste velice nadaný muž, pane Stará hudbo. Nejmoudřejší a nejmazanější cizinec na Werelu, tak vás jednou nazval pan Mehao. Pracujete s námi – a proti nám, ano – zdatněji než jakýkoli jiný cizozemec. Navzájem si rozumíme. Můžeme spolu hovořit. Věřím, že to s námi opravdu myslíte dobře a že když vám nabídnu způsob, jak jim posloužit – naději, že tenhle hrozný konflikt skončí – že ho přijmete.“
„Doufám, že toho budu schopen.“
„Je pro vás důležité, abyste byl identifikován jako stoupenec jedné strany konfliktu, nebo raději zůstanete neutrální?“
„Každý čin může neutralitu zpochybnit,“
„To, že jste byl unesen rebely z vyslanectví, nedosvědčuje, že byste s nimi sympatizoval.“
„Zdá se, že ne.“
„Spíše naopak.“
„Dá se to tak chápat.“
„Dá. Jestli vám to vyhovuje.“
„To, čemu dávám přednost, nemá žádnou váhu, ministře.“
„To má velkou váhu, pane Stará hudbo. Nuže. Jste nemocný, unavuji vás. Budeme v našem rozhovoru pokračovat zítra, ech? Jestli chcete.“

2008-01-31T22:50:00.001-08:00

Good job.

There are all kinds of great topics you could work with.

You could make fun of the classes they're taking, bust on
them for taking easy classes, accuse them of taking 10
years to get a 4 year degree... the list is endless.

Since you're going to be meeting these women at some
point, make sure you go and do things with them that have
"built in conversation value". Go to interesting, fun
parts of town with unusual and interesting shops.

This kind of thing creates all kinds of opportunity
for great comments... and it keeps the energy up all by
itself.

Now that you're meeting women online, do yourself a
big favor and practice your skills CHATTING with women.

Chatting is great because it slows the conversation down
to about 1/5 the normal speed, and gives you time to plan
out what you're saying.

2008-01-23T01:20:00.001-08:00

Mr. DeAngelo,

Well, I've got to say, after trying many, many different
methods, yours have been the first ones to work. I cut and
pasted your online personal add and sent it out to a few
women on a college-oriented site. This is after trying
(unsuccessfully) for many months to get any sort of response
from the women on the site. Before reading the newsletters,
I would've typically sent out about 20 e-mails, and got 1
response if I was lucky. This time, however, I sent out
about 5 or 6, and got 3 replies the next day! Unbelievable!
Now, for the tricky part...getting the number and the date.
I've got some leads, and I want to keep my C&F attitude up.
I'm just normally funny, but need practice at being cocky.
(I'm either too subtle, or too extreme, so I'm practicing at
finding a middle ground.) But, in the meantime, what kind of
C&F response would you give to a University-aged woman?

G.

2008-01-12T11:03:00.000-08:00

MY COMMENTS:

Well, I don't exactly know what you mean by "serious".

If you mean "When can I talk about how I'm sad because
my dog got run over and my inner child needs a hug", then
NEVER is the answer.

Well, maybe you can have one "serious" conversation like
this on the 10th date, and it can last no longer than 5
minutes.

Just stay away from heavy emotional issues, problems,
drama, and general WUSS topics.

If you need a friend, GET A DOG!

lol... I forgot where that line is from, but I love it.

2008-01-07T02:13:00.001-08:00

***QUESTION***

Ok David, first off, I would like to say thank you for
taking the years that you did to get all of this great
info., and then be generous enough to spread the knowledge.
Here is my situation. I knew this girl back in high school,
and I haven't seen her since graduation (about 2 yrs ago).
I bumped into her the other day and WOW (she is a 9.5 easy).
Well, having not yet tried out any of your techniques, I
thought "What the hell, let's go for it." It worked. The c/f
technique was golden. Got her email AND number. Well, we
eventually went out and had a great time. A couple of days
later, I went over to see her new place, and well, things
got a little wild. (it all started with your amazing kiss
technique- thanks again) So here's the deal. She likes me a
lot, and I like her a lot, but I have been playing back in
order to keep the ugly head of the "wussy" out of the
picture. When is a good time (or is there a good time at
all) to be serious with her? Do I bust on her all the time,
b/c I don't want her to think I am a jerk? Any help you can
give is great.

2007-12-29T03:34:00.001-08:00

MY COMMENTS:

Yes, all of the email letters I print in my newsletters are
ALL real. Every single one of them. I wish I had more time
in the day, because I get hundreds of them a week...

Thanks for the compliments, and enjoy.

2007-12-17T13:52:00.000-08:00

Dave,

I know that you put real stories in these letters because
I sent one in and it appeared exactly as I had written it.
I laughed till I cried over the "fat, pimply, and hairy"
story.

You are "Da man" I look forward to your wit in these
letters and I must admit I'm going to buy your book.

GJ

2007-12-13T04:13:00.000-08:00

MY COMMENTS:

Humor has a structure, and it can be learned. Some people
have an easier time learning how to be funny than others,
but I've seen some not-too-funny people become VERY funny
with practice.

Read some books, watch Comedy Central, and practice. Start
a journal and write down funny lines you hear so you can
use them later.

Get with your Bro and watch him. Ask him for advice and
ideas. Practice. You can learn how to be funny, and it's
important that you do if you want to attract women!

As I'm sure you know, my book has some of my very favorite
"standard" lines for different situations, plus more on
how to create specific humor for specific situations. Go to:
doubleyourdating.com/ebook/ for all the details.

Whats goin on Dave?

2007-12-11T03:49:00.001-08:00

I would love to say how great your stuff works, but I
haven't had much luck with it as of yet. I have seen it put
to good use though. My bro does the whole cocky/funny
routine naturally and I see all its power. Most of the time
I was Mr. Nice-Guy. and, of course, it didn't work as much
as I would like. Which is why I'm writing this e-mail.(duh)

My problem is I'm missing the key ingredient to your
'super recipe,' funny. The way I see it, cocky is like
garlic, by itself it is repulsive and disgusting. But when
used as a seasoning to another main dish (funny), it can do
wonders. I'm missing the main dish. Anyone can be cocky, but
I lack in the funny department. So where do I start to fix
this?

Thanks,
P in NJ

Are you with me here?

2007-12-08T07:10:00.000-08:00

The problem is that "being yourself" for a lot of guys
means "being the type of guy that women don't feel any
ATTRACTION for".

If you can't make a woman feel the emotion of ATTRACTION,
then there's really nothing I can do to help you. If
you're not willing to do the work and make the changes
more or less permanent, then you're going to have a long
uphill battle.

And in your case, you have to realize that this woman
was attracted to you for a REASON, and if you stop that
REASON, then you're going to stop the ATTRACTION.

2007-12-02T06:46:00.001-08:00

Then I get an email saying "I want to be nice and sweet
and a good guy but still have all the super hot women
calling me 24/7".

Here's what I say:

"BEING YOURSELF" IS A PRIVELEGE THAT YOU HAVE TO EARN,
NOT A RIGHT.

And the way that you earn it is to learn what it takes
to make women feel ATTRACTION, learn what it takes to
NOT drive women away, then make these things part of
"YOURSELF".

2007-11-26T16:10:00.000-08:00

***QUESTION***

Hey Dave....

I’m a premed student who has been subscribing to your
newsletter for quite a while now. I've been meaning to buy
your book but im not in the habit of using a credit card so
ill have to open an account especially for this. Anyway,
i've been going out with this girl for 9 months now. She is
smart, attractive, and funny. the way i landed her was by
being cocky funny. EXTREMELY cocky funny. i was always one
step ahead of her. It was kind of like "Dont even TRY to
challenge me, im already inside your head!". everything was
cool. but to tell the truth (and no offense) i just kind of
got tired of the constant effort.....so i cooled it off a
bit not always seizing the opportunity to remind her just
who it is she's dealing with. And i think i got screwed.
Now i feel like i've turned into a wuss....and i HATE IT !!!
no..I LOATHE IT !!!!!!!!!! When i turn on the macho act
she's a pussy cat again. You see i want someone to whom i
can genuinely be....just nice to, with her appreciating it
and NOT taking advantage. i mean since this is a long-term
relationship i want someone who will give me a smooth ride
without all that continuos maintenance. I dont wanna be
cocky and tough all my life with her, sometimes a guy just
wants to relax. Is it possible??

F.Z, Lebanon

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Ooooooo, good question.

I've seen a trend in the way guys who are learning to be
Cocky and Funny and to stay in control change.

As they're learning the techniques, they become more and
more attractive to women. Then, they meet a really amazing
woman - a woman that was previously "out of their league",
and they decide to start a relationship.

As soon as they start getting closer, the guy begins to
put aside the things that worked, and start being more
and more submissive... which, of course, drives this new
woman away.

2007-11-24T03:59:00.001-08:00

E from NYC

>>>MY COMMENTS:

It's interesting, because I actually discovered the Cocky
and Funny technique by watching guys who were good with
women. In fact, a guy who is now a good friend was trying
to explain the concept to me a few years back... and he
was the first one to say "Cocky and Funny". Of course, I
had no idea what he was talking about at the time. It
really made no sense to me.

But after I started working with it and watching other
guys who were really successful with women, I learned
how it worked.

It sounds like you're really getting it - congrats!

As for your questions...

Don't worry about being able to "come up with enough
lines to keep up a conversation". Just do what you can,
and enjoy yourself. A few Cocky and Funny lines used
here and there are MUCH better than nothing at all.

If you feel like approaching strangers, great. If you
just realize that most women are going to be nice, but
some will be either unavailable or unfriendly then
you'll be fine. I have personally had great success
meeting "strangers", and as my good friend Rick says:
Every friend you have started out as a stranger...

And as for the "5 project girls", you're cracking me
up over here. If you like the idea of staying single
and dating a lot of different women, then this is the
way to do it! Just make sure they don't turn into your
personal "psychological projects".

Thanks for your email.

2007-11-13T10:01:00.000-08:00

Hey -

I am 18 years old and just graduated high school. I used to
be a MAJOR wuss and when I was younger I was always a shy
kid who was picked on a lot because I was a short, skinny kid
that never stood up for myself. And worst of all, I never
took advantage of high school to get girls! I started
getting your newsletter earlier this year and the cocky +
funny attitude changed my life in more ways than one. I hang
out with guys that get the hottest high school girls you can
ever imagine. Not only do they get 9's and 10's, I see
these girls obsess over them. I was around them so much
that I tried to model thier behavior around girls and I
noticed that EVERYTHING you preach about, comes to them
NATURALLY. Every tip of advice you’ve given to guys ACTUALLY
works, and Ive seen it first hand.

I started using cocky + funny myself and even use lines
that Ive seen my friends use in past cases. I saw a HOT
girl in the mall and she was checking herself out in a
pocket mirror so I said "don’t worry, your hair doesn’t look
THATTT bad". She started laughing even though I just made
fun of her! I asked for her email and when she said she
doenst have the internet, I used your line "well do you have
electricity"? AGAIN the girl laughed, and I ended up
getting her phone # and I hooked up with her that weekend!

MY QUESTION - my natural personality has transformed
from a wussy shy nice kid to a guy that’s gonna bust your
balls, but a nice guy at heart. I made a lot more girl
"friends" too, but whenever they try to tell me their sad
stories, I let them know Im not their boyfriend and do not
care. Whenever I gain the courage to use cocky+funny, it
WORKS but my problem is even though I’ve seen this work in
action, I fear I don’t know enough cocky+funny lines to keep
up a conversation with a girl. Also, do you recommend
hitting on random strangers you see, because my friends say
they never really hit on strangers unless they have a
reason to go up and talk to them. My friends also say to
ALWAYS have 5 "project girls" and never focus on one girl.
Is this true? please write back.

2007-11-12T04:31:00.000-08:00

The way to keep improving and becoming more successful
is to putting innovative ideas into your mind. You must
continue to learn in order to continually become better.

And on that note, if you haven't downloaded your copy
of my online eBook, then you're missing out on one of the
best learning opportunities there is in the area of meeting
and dating women.

And by the way, make sure and forward this email to a
friend and encourage them to sign up for my free newsletter.
They'll appreciate it, and I'll appreciate it.

I'll talk to you again in a couple of days.

Your Friend,

David D.

MAILBAG: GREAT TECHNIQUES FOR ATTRACTING WOMEN
THE MAILBAG: Great Techniques For Attracting Women

2007-11-07T01:22:00.000-08:00

If you can't think of something original in the moment,
then you have something to do that will work well. If you
don't do this, you'll wind up hesitating and losing all kinds
of opportunities.

The journal is a great place to write down all of your
"default" techniques, plan them out, and organize them for
easy refreshing.

3) Put negative experiences into proper perspective.

When you have a negative emotional experience, it can be
intense... and it can have an impact on your behavior. It's
important to remember that just because you had a negative
experience doesn't necessarily meant that you did something
wrong.

The best stock traders lose money on many trades.

The best sports stars lose games often.

The best weather forecasters are often wrong.

But do they let temporary setbacks deter them from
being successful?

Of course not. They get right back on track and keep
going.

If you get turned down for a date, or a woman stops
calling you back, or a woman says that you're a rude and
arrogant bastard because you made fun of her... you need
to stop and think about the situation.

If you're successful most of the other times, then you
need to decide if this was because you're truly not doing
the right thing or if it was just one of those situations
that happens once in awhile.

I heard a great quote awhile back, but I can't remember
who originally said it or wrote it:

"I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure
is trying to please everyone."

4) Keep learning all the time. If you stop learning new
things, your mind starts becoming set in it's ways.

2007-11-03T04:18:00.000-07:00

Just remember to write down things that work for you.

You might be out for tea with a woman, and casually bring
up a book you read about unusual sexual practices... and
notice that it gets a great response. Write it down in the
"interesting ideas" section of your journal so you remember
to try it again. (I haven't tried this particular one, but
I have found that women love to talk about sex in general)

The point is that if you keep a record of all the best
things you do, then you can look back at it and refresh
your memory any time you want. It's a great idea, and I
do it. It's one of the single best things I've done to
improve quickly with women.

2) Have one good default thing to do for every common
situation. Have one way to start conversations, one way
to get emails and numbers, one great place to go for a
tea/coffee meeting, etc.

2007-11-02T08:24:00.000-07:00

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I have always found situations like yours fascinating.

It seems to me that a lot of times, we know exactly what
to do to get the results we want... but for whatever reason
we just don't do it.

Here are some common reasons for this:

1) We get bored. Boredom is one of the most common causes
of failure in my experience. Here's how it works: You start
doing something, get great success, but start to think that
you need to do something new because YOU'RE getting bored
with it... not because others are.

2) A negative emotional experience. When a negative
experience is coupled with a strong emotion, it creates a
deep IMPRINT. In your case, you were accused of being
"egotistical". I'm assuming that for whatever reason this
caused you to feel BAD, which led to you deciding that you
needed to behave differently.

3) By trying to make small improvements we lose the original
formula that created success... or we just plain evolve to
a different strategy that turns out to not be as successful.
I've done this many times in my life. By trying to make
something better I actually make it worse.

4) Just plain forgetting. Let's say that you are single, and
you're going out a lot, meeting a lot of women, and really
having a lot of success. Then let's say you meet a really
nice woman and have a relationship for two years... but then
break up. It's easy to forget all of the little nuances that
made you successful in the past... and to just "start over"
from scratch.

5) Feeling like we need to be original and unique in every
situation. I've watched many, many situations where a guy
will see a woman that he'd like to meet, but he doesn't know
what to say to her to start a conversation because he feels
like he needs to come up with something catchy and original.

Of course, there are more reasons than this, but these
are some of the most common ones I see.

So what's the answer? What can you do to avoid losing
the great game that you've created?

Here are a few techniques that I and some of my friends
use:

1) Keep a journal. I know, I know... you don't want to
look like a homeless poet or some out-of-work screenwriter
sitting in a cafe with nothing better to do than write to
yourself...

But keeping a journal of your best ideas and how they've
worked is a GREAT idea. You don't have to get fancy, and you
don't need to take a lot of time with this.

2007-11-01T09:51:00.000-07:00

Hi, I've been getting your letter in my e-mail for a while
now, one thing that I don't understand is the Kissing Test.
How do you do it? I must have missed something, but I'm
curious from all of the success stories that use it.

Thx. (You da man)
E.L. OK

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Just go to my main website and enter again. It's on the very
first page after the entry page.

***QUESTION***

David,

I've been having some really good success getting women from
online personal ads to respond. I used your formula, modified
with some of my own material.

Then I follow up with my email version of cocky&funny. I
wanted to share a recent email that I received:

"You've managed to intrigue me. Give me a call when you get a
chance...555-1234

I like your confidence!
M."

This was just her 2nd email to me. And I didn't even have to
ASK her for her #, she just volunteered it. I'll be calling
her this evening. Obviously, I have changed her phone number -
I don't want all your subscribers calling her too!

Here's my question:

Many times she won't volunteer her #. In your book, you
suggest that the next step is to get her number so you can set
up a meeting. I have found that sometimes you can skip the #
part and arrange the meeting via email. But some women are
more open to this than others. Is there a good rule of thumb
here?

Thanks for everything,

S.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Good job.

I personally like to email first, then have a telephone
conversation. I think that the email establishes an
interesting and unusual relationship... and the telephone
firms it up and is a better way to set up the next meeting.

I've tried all kinds of combinations, and this is my
personal experience.

Email first, then call to set up the meeting.

You're doing a great job, and thanks for your email!

...and if you're reading this right now and saying to
yourself:

"You know, it sure would be cool to get this part of my
life handled and to figure out how to actually make women
feel attracted to me..."

...then I'd recommend that you go and download a copy of
my online eBook "Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should
Know About How To Be Successful With Women". It's jam
packed with all of my very best ideas and techniques for
meeting and attracting women.

It's not a bunch of recycled pickup lines and stupid
ideas that you don't work. It's taken me years to figure
it all out, and you won't find the materials anywhere
else.

Best part? 100% money-back guarantee. If you're not
THRILLED with it, just email and ask for a refund. It's
that simple. Just go to:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/ebook/

...now and download it.

And I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

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***COMMENT***

Hi Dave,

I have been reading your emails for some time and have found
them most enlightening.

Something you wrote in your last Mailbag - How to avoid
being "Just Friends", caught my attention. You mentioned
that some friends you knew, now no longer need to approach
women.

I went through a stage when I was younger, 16, 17 & 18,
where I knew I didn't need to talk to women. I'd be with
friends at the shopping mall, where I'd have girls asking me
my name, phone number etc. I was always noticed, which I
knew had something to do with my body language and the way
I conducted myself.

This was all very well until I took a fall from grace after
being accused of being egotistical, and then spent the last
few years searching for this confidence that I'd lost.
Unsuccessfully.

After reading your column, I used your cocky funny theory to
chat with a few women and suddenly found my feet again, it
was amazing. Like jumping back on a bike after years of
driving a car.

I recently started a new job in which I knew I was not going
to stay. I asked out the most attractive woman in the
company, knowing I had nothing to lose, I have been out with
her once and now have her wanting to go out again, after
I've left.

Now I'm iching to get out again on the weekend and meet some
more hotties.

I do have some advice for your readers, don't sit there on
sidelines, put yourself in the game, playing is the only
way to learn.

Thanks,

The new master
Sydney, Australia

2007-10-29T07:31:00.000-07:00

***SUCCESS STORY***

David, I've only had your book for a few days now, and it's
paying off. Let me preface by saying that I've been able to
do the cocky-funny thing my whole life, but somehow believed
that I had to keep it in check and be a 'nice guy' in order
for women to really fall for me (Ouch!). Anyway, I've seen
lots of people ask you about how to get dates with
waitresses or bartenders etc. and thought I'd share: Friday
night I'm playing a gig with a band at a local venue, so I
show up early for soundcheck. There's [an attractive]
waitress there, and she starts talking to me (Didn't even
have to worry about approaching her!) so I decide to pour
it on. It went something like this:

Her: "God, I'm tired. I need to take a nap."

Me: "Well, you can't sleep here or we'll have to ask you to
leave. You know, I've been sitting here waiting for 5 minutes
for you to get me another drink. No tip fior you, I guess."

Her, laughing: "OK, hold your horses." (gets drink) "So
what's your name?" (introduces herself)

Me: "Oh, trying to pick me up already, huh? You know I hardly
know you, and I don't give my phone number out to strangers."

Her, laughing, looking at me in disbelief: "That's bullsh**!
I'm just trying to be nice!"

Me: "Sure you are. Well, if you insist, you can give me your
number. I mean, who knows, maybe we can be friends?"

Bingo.

2007-10-25T14:05:00.000-07:00

MY COMMENTS:

Well, I don't think you have anything to worry about. My
guess isn't that being a wussy is EVERY going to make the
ladies feel attracted to you.

And it's going to be a loooooong time before enough guys
in this world learn how to actually make women feel
ATTRACTION. I think you're going to be OK.

2007-10-24T09:26:00.000-07:00

***COMMENT***

I'm not sure whether to thank you or berate you. You may
not realize this, but while you are helping thousands of
clueless guys you are also hurting the entire male
population by raising the bar. The more mentally attractive
guys there are out there, the less attractive they all seem.
If everyone drove a Ferrari, then Ferraris would be as boring
and commonplace as a cheap Ford, no matter how physically
beautiful the car is. No one wants boring and commonplace.
That's partially why C&F is so attractive to women (As if you
didn't already know this). Now I know that you're barely
making a dent in the population of wusses out there, but word
is beginning to spread. You might consider toning down your
marketing or not giving out so many of the info gems. Or you
may ruin everything you're working for. Can you imagine a
world where wusses are the attractive ones... just because
they're different? The thought makes me shudder. Anyway,
I'd give you a success story but I think I've said enough.
If you start cloning Jedi, then you'll have a clone war on
your hands.

-BJS in Houston

MY COMMENTS:

2007-10-23T09:03:00.000-07:00

Phew. That was kind of intense.

Clearly the words of a guy who's been there.

I would like to comment on one thing. You said something
in the middle that stood out as a gem:

"Absence of fear (calmness) and indifference (self control)
eliminates a woman's psychological control."

This is a profound thought. I think that men everywhere
need to get this idea at a deep level.

I was listening to India Arie's album, which I think is
pretty cool (As Butthead would say "Chickth Dig It").

She has a song on the album called "Back To The Middle".

I think that us guys tend to get too far to one extreme
or the other when it comes to women.

We either see them as "innocent girls" who just need a guy
to be nice, buy them dinner, protect them, etc. in order
to get their love and approval...

Or we see them as cold, hardened, ice-hearted control
freaks who emotionally and psychologically manipulate us.

My experience is that most women fall in the middle of
this range, and they will act differently in different
situations. If you act like a wussy, call 47 times a day,
devote yourself to her, and become a complete emotional
suckerfish, she's likely to get so repulsed that she'll
walk all over your sensitive little feelings with her
stiletto heels.

If you she favors you and becomes emotionally attached,
then you take advantage of her and abuse her emotionally
and psychologically, then you might see the more frail
and weak side.

On the other hand, if you "Come back to the middle" and
cultivate more indifference while lessening your
insecurity, you can bypass a lot of this extreme and
unhealthy stuff.

"Absence of fear (calmness) and indifference (self control)
eliminates a woman's psychological control."

T.W- the Phoenix

2007-10-21T04:43:00.000-07:00

P.S. Me....well, I burned out about five years ago, and hope
to eventually rise from the ashes to re-enter the
psychological arena and do battle once again.

2007-10-19T06:25:00.000-07:00

Hello David,

Much of your information is insightful, and educational.
However, I think the heart of the matter in regards to men's
fear of women, is the fact that men see what attracts them
in a woman, only it requires a theatrical performance that
puts them on stage. The real fear is a result of one's own
inner psychology working against their conscious brain, that
if the verbal presentation isn't met with approval then the
result is personal rejection by a woman who meant so much in
one's own mind, which is taken personally due to it's sexual
ramifications, an absence of sex. Comedians call it shtick,
and without a well rehearsed comedic routine, then there
indeed is something to be nervous about. Women are very much
like a rabid dog, keenly smelling fear and able to inflict
personal pain, the key is to approach not only without fear,
but with indifference so as not to get bit with total
rejection. Men are better at dealing with physical scars
than the psychological ones, which take far longer to heal,
and some don't. Unlike a man, women are totally unforgiving,
and every man knows this, and this is the "fulcrum of fear",
knowing we are coming in for the approach without power and
it must be done to her unknown mental terrain... right now.
The difficulty for women is the fact that society places
beauty on a pedestal, which automatically inflates their ego
far beyond what they can handle. Pretty girls get off on
rejecting men, it feeds the ego quite nicely. It's the
equivalent of the school bully beating up all the other boys,
only women do it psychologically using their beauty and then
rejection. And unlike the physical presence of a battered
victim, the feelings are invisible and go unnoticed, without
any regard for the psychological result. Absence of fear
(calmness)and indifference (self control)eliminates a woman's
psychological control. This power is what they are born with
if attractive. Combine this with a biological hormonal
imbalance and you have... a beautiful rabid bad dog. They
are also in a unique circumstance that is making them more
dysfunctional with the progression of time especially in the
United States. They are gaining more power in the world as
playing the role that men have (psychological strength), and
yet are to be receptive sexually to a man's advances
(psychological submissive). This is a total dichotomy whose
result is confusion in their own minds and rejection feeds
the new power that fuels the immediate psychological
satisfaction through self gratification. This is far more
prevalent in the industrial countries than in the third
world, where a woman's naked breast is a thing of beauty
that is not even noticed. Here in the U.S. a nude breast is
taboo, and met with nervous arrest. Thus the difficulty in
attempting to communicate with the opposite sex is three
dimensional, being biological, psychological, and cultural.
Did I mention their interests are the opposite of most men?
Don't get me started....

2007-10-17T01:18:00.000-07:00

MY COMMENTS:

This is a fantastic observation. When you are "in the zone"
with your Cocky and Funny, and you're really being an
interesting challenge while at the same time making her
laugh, you'll get all kinds of amazing responses.

It's not uncommon to have a woman say "I've never met
anyone like you before". It's true they usually haven't!

Most guys kiss up to them, act fake, try to buy them
dinners and gifts to get their attention, and generally
act like Wuss-Bags.

Some see Cocky and Funny as being "too manipulative",
but when it's done right it's the opposite. It's learning
how to be fun, interesting, challenging, and magnetic.

And your question of "What am I going to get in return"
is must magic. It catches women totally off guard... and
it's charming. It's very suggestive, while still being
classy. Great job.

Thanks for your email.

2007-10-15T23:11:00.000-07:00

Oh, don't stress about it.

If I were in your situation, I'd tell women something like:

"OK, do you have a car? Good, because my lease just ended
and I'm between cars... and a woman without a car just
isn't an option for me."

Turn it around and make it something funny! Make it a
qualification that a woman has to meet...

I would. Great opportunity for Cocky and Funny!

***QUESTION***

Hi David -

DYD, and your newsletter, rock!

I was wondering if you are planning any seminars that might
be closer to where I am than L.A.? I am based in Tokyo,
Japan...

How about Hawaii?

B.T.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, I'm getting GREAT feedback for the New York seminar,
and I'd love to do others.

I've gotten emails from all around the world saying "Come
do a seminar in Australia" etc.

I would have to have enough guys coming for it to make
sense, because doing a seminar costs more than one might
think. And doing one on the other side of the world from
me would be pricey.

OK, for kicks I set up a few email addresses to get some
feedback (I just did it on the spot). If you'd be interested
in attending a seminar with me, do this:

1. Go to http://www.doubleyourdating.com/seminar/ and read
about the seminar, price, and details.

2. Send an email to one of the following addresses to let
me know which you'd be interested in attending:

Australia: auseminar@doubleyourdating.com
Europe: europeseminar@doubleyourdating.com
Japan: japanseminar@doubleyourdating.com
Hawaii: hawaiiseminar@doubleyourdating.com
Chicago: chicagoseminar@doubleyourdating.com

Again, go read about the seminar, then email one of the
above addresses to tell that you'd be interested in
attending... thanks!

***QUESTION***

Hey Dave!

Just wanted to say that your C+F techniques work like magic -
they have such a strong impact that sometimes a girl can just
say "I love you" literally half an hour into the conversation.
or things like "you are the only person who seems to
understand me", or "i've never met anyone like you before!"
I especially like situations when they ask you for some favor
like a drink, to take them out to a club/bar, or simply to
hold something... immediately I say .."... And what am I
gonna get in return?" They freeze for a sec and then usually
say: "A hug", "a kiss", "or anything you like" lol depending
on the situation I may say "Nah, not good enough..." and then
say "go do it yourself" or something along the lines.
Anyways, I was sitting in one pizza place with one of these
chicks and she asked me to take her to some exclusive place
I know and I said my phrase (above). I was expecting she'd
say "anything you like when we get there" but instead she
backfired: "ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!" - I froze for a sec - and
then I said that it wasn't good enough... lol and she nodded
and smiled (it's like she knew I was in the game) but still,
it was the first time I heard such a response and I was
wondering what you would say the best response is to this
sort of situations/comments! Everyone get the Book! It's a
treasure!!

B.

2007-10-15T01:05:00.000-07:00

Dave, I want to thank you for your book and for always
answering my questions. Since reading your book, I have been
working out, dressing nicer, and attracting women. I am only
5'5 but, when I am using your techniques women seem to focus
more on my build, clothes, and personality rather than how
short I am. My question is; my car lease is ending and since
I won't have a car for a while, how will I be able to date
women? The meeting and attracting I am beginning to master,
but how do I take a women out on date and what to I say to
them if I don't have a car or access to one. Thanks for all
your help and everyone should go buy this book. It is
awesome!

2007-10-12T01:04:00.000-07:00

Hi,

Could you give an Cocky and Funny example answering "What
time is it?" from an obviously interested (well, more or
less) chick?

DJ

>>>MY COMMENTS:

This is a great question.

I think it's a great idea to come up with some great
comebacks for common situations like this. Think them
through.

There are probably 10 or 20 situations where women start
talking to you, and you should be ready for all of them.

To answer your specific question... try these:

"I will tell you the time, but I just want to let you
know that I see right through your little ploy to meet me.
I realize that you probably don't see such attractive
men often, but you didn't have to use such an obvious
line to meet me."

"It's time for you to get a watch."

"What an unoriginal pickup line."

...now come up with 10 of your own. And come up with
others for the other common situations where women start
talking to you.

***SUCCESS STORY***

i juz thought u might like to hear about a very recent
success story...earlier today actually....i was in school
(college summer classes) not plannin on pickin up girls at
all....i mean i was there in basketball shorts and
slippers, wut can i say, i was tired, i didnt feel like
gettin all dressed up for school...well anyways...on to the
story....there was this new girl there, id hafta rate her
about an 8, the body was bangin....neways i went outside the
class to work and so did she so i layed deep into the C&F.
like soon as the door closed im all "why u following me?
geez" well we got to talkin cuz as we all know...bookwork
is very boring...after about an hour shes all "take me to
lunch, i'm buying" so i was like "naw i got a lotta book
work to do u need to get to work slacker" and that did it.
she was like "be a slacker with me, cmon, please??" it was
great so after awhile of her begging i went out and let her
buy me lunch....well i juz thought u'd like to hear yet
another success story.

J.B. Nor Cal

>>>MY COMMENTS:

One of the greatest things you can do is play hard to
get when a woman is doing something uncharacteristic...
like offering to buy you lunch or take you out.

It's ESPECIALLY powerful if the woman is unusually
attractive. Attractive women have NO IDEA what to do
when a man isn't being a typical wussy... it creates
a situation that is both mysterious and challenging to
the woman.

I've had plenty of success in my day when I was not all
dressed up. When you're dressed casually and it's obvious
that you don't care what others think... AND you're being
Cocky and Funny is kind of says "I am a person that has
power regardless of my appearance". It's powerful.

***QUESTION***

Dear Dave,

Your techniques are right on target. Your guidelines
helped me become successful on everything from approaching
women to being confident and having fun doing it. I went
from the nice guy "wussy" that women practically ignored, to
something along the lines of well, a player! The cocky
funny routine matches with my sarcastic personality and
women cant seem to get enough of it.

Ok, well Ive done the routine and picked from about the
10 hottest girls and now have a very hot g/f , but now there
is a dilemma. My chemistry teacher now wants me, Im dead
sure of it (shes only 3 years older than me). But this is one
of the biggest challenges ive ever come across and I think
it needs your expert opinion. First, she is every guys
fantasy and a 10,000 on the 1-10 hotness scale...(yeah the
girl is that hot) The problem is she definitely knows this.
I have heard many guys hit on her and she has shot all of
them down, I heard it with my own ears. She already asked
me indirectly twice if I was going to a local place to watch
a game, unfortunately I couldn't make it both times. And it
seems like the more I ignore her the more she flirts. I want
to build the tension to the absolute highest level before I
decide to show the slightest bit of interest, how do I do
this effectively?...

Your Friend,

J.R.
New Jersey

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Hm. Yea. I think I know what to do.

I think that it's just too dangerous for you to start
something with your teacher. And if she's this attractive
there's only one thing I can think of to do.

I'm going to be in New York in September doing a seminar,
and I would be willing to do you the personal favor of
coming to N.J. and escorting this woman myself. I'll handle
it, and you won't have to worry about her anymore.

I'd do that for you, since we're friends and all...

OK, try this:

Next time she asks you where you're going, just say
"Isn't it against the rules for you to keep asking me
these kinds of questions?" and give her a sly smile.

Then laugh, and say "Hey, do you have email?"

Get her email, and write her an email that says:

"Hey, I'm busy today and tomorrow, but I might have some
time this weekend. Maybe we should have a cup of tea and
some stimulating conversation... and you can help me with
my homework."

That should do the trick.

Oh, and if you decide that you just aren't up to it and
don't want to risk it, let me know. I'm here for you.

2007-10-10T01:17:00.000-07:00

A CRACK HOUSE.

Wow, I could work with this material all day. If I can
stop laughing maybe I'll dig up your other emails that
you've sent me since this one for the next mailbags... I
couldn't imagine better material if I tried.

2007-10-08T23:49:00.000-07:00

I'm reconsidering right now.

Oh, already came to a decision... I was right on.

And you know, I really think your idea of me turning over
this "column" to a woman is a great idea. Maybe you could
handle it for me?

Let me guess, you're actually writing this from your laptop
inside the "Carter" building... you know, the one in New
Jack City that was taken over by gangsters and converted
into... what else?

2007-10-07T03:01:00.000-07:00

Yea, ALL of my shy friends feel compelled to start
conversations with strangers by lying. It's a fundamental
part of the "shyness" complex.

CRACK PIPE PLEASE.

Oh, and this "woman's delicate psyche" B.S. is really
nice. How nice of you to frame all women as "delicate
psychological flowers" who are wrongfully injured by
brutally interesting men who bust on them.

And to wrap up, you go with:

"I urge you to reconsider the advice given to that
man. I am not the only one to say this. Maybe you should
quit writing this column and give the job to a woman!!!"

Yea, you're right...

2007-10-03T01:02:00.000-07:00

[I didn't include my answer, because it was a few pages
long... as you may remember]

So let's consider your first comment of:

"First of all, the comment insinuates that the woman is
a lesbian, or does not deserve a decent guy in her life.
Lesbians in this country are in a minority and their rights
are protected by law. All women have the right to choose
their partner, whether male or female. Women also have the
right to choose the most compatible male available. This
person, in my friends opinion, does not deserve the time of
the day from that particular woman for being so insulting
to her face."

Lesbians are a minority? The comment insinuates that she's
a lesbian? Women have the RIGHT to choose the "most
compatible male available"?

Can I ask you PLEASE PASS ME THE CRACK PIPE, because it's
obviously some good stuff. I mean, you MUST be high.

My comments are only taking away from the beautiful
comedy that you've already created in this heartfelt
paragraph, so I'll continue with your next...

"Second, the comment slaps the woman in the face.
The woman at the gym may have problems finding and keeping
a boyfriend. She may be shy. That comment is a good way to
injure a woman's delicate psyche."

The only problem that the woman at the gym was having is
the ability to TELL THE TRUTH! Hell, she opened her
mouth and lied to a complete stranger without even being
spoken to.

The reason she might have a problem "finding and keeping a
boy friend" is that she's a liar! I don't know a lot of
people that feel compelled to lie to people they've never
met or spoken to, but this is a little red flag, in my
humble opinion. And it's surely NOT a sign of SHYNESS.

LOL! You're killing me.

2007-10-02T00:31:00.000-07:00

I knew she noticed but it never bothered me cause I had no
intentions of acting. Well, I had to go over to get a set
of dumbbells for my next exercise and as I got close to
where she was she suddenly turned around and said "I have
a boyfriend" and turned around. Normally I would have kinda
stood there in shock and said nothing but, I guess all that
mental practice paid off. With out even thinking or pausing
the words just came out. I said "Hey that's great I am happy
for you. (Pause - and in a lower tone) I know this is
probably a major accomplishment for you but to the rest a
the world this is kinda normal so you might not want to go
telling every stranger you see." Then I just walked off
with my weights to do my sets. 5 min later she comes over
to me and apologizes and asks for my number. Turns out she
didn't have a boyfriend but was just tired of being picked
up by losers while she was trying to do a workout. Thanks
for the pleasant surprise!

ORIGINAL EMAIL

2007-09-30T05:08:00.000-07:00

Just wanted to share a little bit of what your lessons have
done for me. I read your book and started concentrating on
what I thought was my weak points. I did as your book
recommended and started picturing myself as the cocky funny
person I wanted to be. I even did the whole daydream
practice thing everyday. I work at a fitness center so I
see lots of hot women all the time. My biggest weakness is
that I look away quickly after eye contact is made. I
decided that before I started trying to approach women I
would make it my goal for a couple of weeks to just make
eye contact and hold it until they looked away. Ok, here is
the good part. After practicing eye contact for a couple of
weeks and doing the whole mental exercise thing, I was at
work one day working out after my break and was practicing
my eye contact thing between sets with this really hot girl
near the dumbbell rack.

MY COMMENTS:

2007-09-29T01:25:00.000-07:00

Oh, I smiled with joy when I read this one.

This woman has gone on to email me again twice ranting
about my newsletters and materials. The latest one was
a bizarre misinterpretation of a part of my book. It was
great.

But let's stick to the email at hand...

And to be fair, I'll reprint the original section that
you're commenting on (before I mock you in front of many
thousands of male readers who are already biased against
you because they know I'm going to mock you):

COMMENT FROM A WOMAN

2007-09-28T02:59:00.000-07:00

Dear David,

One of my friends wants to slap the sh** out of you!
Your advice to the guy at the gym was totally out of line
and rude. The guy looked at a woman too long. The woman then
told him she had a boyfriend. He then said, "I realize that
is a major accomplishment for you, however, it it quite
normal for a woman to have a boyfriend."

First of all, the comment insinuates that the woman is
a lesbian, or does not deserve a decent guy in her life.
Lesbians in this country are in a minority and their rights
are protected by law. All women have the right to choose
their partner, whether male or female. Women also have the
right to choose the most compatible male available. This
person, in my friends opinion, does not deserve the time of
the day from that particular woman for being so insulting
to her face.

Second, the comment slaps the woman in the face.
The woman at the gym may have problems finding and keeping
a boyfriend. She may be shy. That comment is a good way to
injure a woman's delicate psyche.

I urge you to reconsider the advice given to that
man. I am not the only one to say this. Maybe you should
quit writing this column and give the job to a woman!!!

Thank You,

B.R.

Belleview, Florida.

2007-09-26T13:45:00.000-07:00

MY COMMENTS:

Hm, first you tell me that Cocky and Funny rubs you the
wrong way, then you agree that it works, and even on men...
then encourage me to keep up the good work.

Hey, would you do me a favor and write a book teaching
women how to use your "Don't accept free drinks" technique?
I think it would go over very well!

No, really... I think you should do it. It's just the kind
of wisdom that our women of today need. And you're just the
person to do it. You'd be helping women all over the world.

2007-09-24T01:10:00.000-07:00

I've never really liked your approach, even though I have no
doubt that it works... personally it rubs me up the wrong way,
and I'd rather go out with a guy who'd listen to my problems.
But hey, maybe I'm a one off. However, though I'm a girl I've
been trying out your C&F routine for a while. Funnily enough
it works just as well for men as it does for girls... I think
partly because guys are so shocked that a girl would go about
ball busting them, but also be flirtatious at the same time.
My favorite move is to always refuse any free drink offers,
yet keep up the C&F routine. ("why, do you think you have to
buy me or something?") It seems to send guys into a tailspin.
Keep up the good work.

2007-09-22T15:11:00.000-07:00

Thanks for your email. It's hard for some guys to even
entertain the idea that being Cocky and Funny with women
could actually make them feel ATTRACTION. I wouldn't have
imagined it in a million years...

But the fact is that even though it doesn't make logical
sense, it works. I'm actually writing another book right
now about the concept of ATTRACTION and how it works...

I've done a lot of research, thinking, experimenting, and
watching to get to the bottom of how and why ATTRACTION
exists, and more importantly how to create it with your
behavior, communication, etc. There's a lot more to come,
so keep your eyes open for it.

Dave,

2007-09-21T01:31:00.000-07:00

All I have to say is that the Cocky/Funny attitude is
seriously the golden ticket to getting girls. I can honestly
say now from acting this way towards girls my success has
skyrocketed in just a matter of time. Just from reading your
newsletters I have gained so much self confidence in myself
in meeting and approaching girls. I at first thought your
newsletter was a bunch of bs at first because (stupid I)
thought girls liked "nice guys". Not the case at all, I
can't thank you enough for all these tips you have shared
with us, and I'm buying your book at the end of this week!
Oh and I've seen some people comment that the cocky/funny
approach doesn't work, your 100% wrong, just try harder and
believe in yourself.

2007-09-12T00:20:00.000-07:00

P.S. I just read an email from a guy who went and watched
the small video clip of me teaching live at my Los Angeles
seminar. He gave me some great feedback, and it dawned on me
that I should be asking for more. If you're thinking of
coming to the New York Seminar in September, do me a favor
and go watch the clip of me, and the clip of the four
attendees talking about their experiences... and give me
some feedback. I'm trying to keep it real, and neither of
these clips was "staged". They're real, candid, and genuine.
You can see them at: http://www.doubleyourdating.com/seminar/
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***COMMENT***

2007-09-11T02:06:00.000-07:00

...or...

"I'm glad you noticed. I realize that this is making you
very attracted to me, but please control yourself."

Just keep coming up with new creative ways to tease,
bust on, and be a challenge.

Thanks for your email. It's a great example of how to
be creative and use the materials in a real-world
situation.

...and if you're reading this right now and you'd like
to learn more specific techniques for meeting women,
including my personal favorite Cocky and Funny lines to
use in common situations, then I'd recommend that you
download a copy of my online eBook "Double Your Dating".
It's full of great ideas and techniques for meeting and
dating the kinds of women you've always wanted. Just go to:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/ebook/

...to get it.

And I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

2007-09-09T23:35:00.000-07:00

Even though it's obvious that you speak English as a
second (or so) language, you get the concept... and you're
making it work for you.

To answer your questions, I really think that you're
doing the right things. When that girl hit you, you turned
it around and made it funny.

Telling a girl that she's cute like a cartoon is a
nice touch (I'm still hoping that's what you meant).

If a girl tells you that you're too funny, just say:

"That's impossible."

2007-09-09T02:04:00.000-07:00

OK, man. First I have to tell you...

YOUR EMAIL IS A TOTAL FREAKSHOW!

But you know what? I actually like it. I like it because
it's the real deal. You did things that I wouldn't have
necessarily done... and you did things that typically
"shouldn't have worked", but it obviously all came together
and worked out in the end because you did ENOUGH OF THE
RIGHT THINGS.

Let's revisit some of my favorite quotes:

"My type are those with Irish ascendance, because they are
mostly honest and have freckles."

Mostly honest and freckles, huh? Interesting fetish.

"So, when I meet a girl with freckles, eyes like
a furious deep blue sea, or green eyes, like the stem of a
flower, petite women with attractively dainty build, nice
butt (we guys like it, come on), and round [breasts] (we
like that too). How can you make fun of that type of sexy
girl, when you notice that her body has a harmonious
symmetry, that does nothing but inspiring within you
pleasure and admiration?"

Eyes like a furious deep blue sea? Or green eyes... like
the stem of a flower? Harmonious symmetry? Whoa.

"I have always been funny, and separately, cocky. I never
put them together, like you put it, as a formula. So far,
that formula works. I am not a chemist, but the components
of our table salt, taken separately, is deadly to us.
Sodium and Chloride: death to us. Yet, if we put them
together, we will have its savory benefit. Same happens
when we use only being Cocky, and just being Funny: no
success, and it kills any possibilities of meeting girls."

This is an interesting way of saying it... again, a
little bit of a complete FREAKSHOW, but I like it. If you
use too much of one and too little of the other things just
won't work out.

Now that we've revisited my FAVORITE lines, let's
review some of the EFFECTIVE things you did and said.

This was funny:

"Wow, you are indeed gorgeous ... you remind me the
PowerPC girls..."

Something tells me that you actually meant the "Powder
Puff Girls", but hey, close enough.

And this whole sequence is great:

"She hit me on the shoulder, and I accused her, "Hey, that
is sexual harassment."

She laughed, and I said to my mind, "Kids, so easily getting
amused." She had not written her e-mail, and I asked her,
"Have you not written the e-mail because you forgot it?
Geeez, young people these days." (She is 29, and I am 21,
lol.)

She- "Oh, my...You are too much."

Me- "For you to handle?"

She stared at me.

I slightly smiled at her, and said, "What? You like my lips?
They are not average... You should be grateful if I touch
your forehead with them."

She was laughing so hard that her face turned red, but I
never laughed, rather, would smirk."

This is real COCKY AND FUNNY in action.

LOL! "What? You like my lips? They are not average... You
should be grateful if I touch your forehead with them!!!"

Now that's funny.

You started out going down the road of "What? You like my
lips?" which sounds very cocky... over the top even. But then
you transition into the unique and original "You should be
grateful if I touch your forehead with them."

Again, it's off the wall, but it's funny and it works.
The shift in direction is funny and confusing.

Mladi novomanzele

2007-09-06T11:19:00.000-07:00

dostali jako jeden z daru mluviciho papouska.
Nebyli tim vsak prilis nadseni, protoze vecer papousek neustale
komentoval jejich postelove aktivity. Mladik se nastval natolik, ze
prehodil pres klec velky rucnik a rekl papouskovi, ze jestli
neprestane,
skonci v zoo.
Druhy den rano manzele sbalili kufry a nedarilo se jim ten nejvetsi
zavrit.
Manzel povida:
"Milacku, ty se posadis nahoru a ja to zkusim."
Tohle nezabralo. Bylo potreba viko vice zatizit, takze zena rika:
"Drahy, ty bud nahore a ja to zkusim."
Tohle take nepomohlo, tak nakonec chlapek povida:
"Podivej, nejde to. Budeme nahore oba a pak to zkusime."
V tu chvili papousek zacal zobakem stahovat rucnik z klece a pritom si
mrmlal:
"Zoo, nezoo, tohle proste musim videt!"

2007-09-03T03:08:00.000-07:00

I did not mean to make this e-mail too long, but hey, I
could not help it. Mind me that I get mad when you tell us
not to make it over two paragraphs, and I see people (like
me) writing long speeches. I am not sorry, whatsoever, lol.
I know you feel great, and proud of yourself when you see
people like me being successful by following your techniques.

2007-09-02T02:53:00.000-07:00

She- "Oh, my...You are too much."

Me- "For you to handle?"

She stared at me.

I slightly smiled at her, and said, "What? You like my lips?
They are not average... You should be grateful if I touch
your forehead with them."

She was laughing so hard that her face turned red, but I
never laughed, rather, would smirk.

She gave me her e-mail, and I said, "Have a good night."
She replied, "You too, bye."

I said, "Wait, are you leaving like that without saying
'it was pleasure meeting you?"'

She said, "Wow, are you always like this?"

Me - "Do you mean offering kisses?"

She laughed, and said, "No, silly ... like being with this
sense of humor."

"All the time, " I said. She was quiet, staring at me, and
said, "I wish all men were like you." I said, "No, I am glad
they are not like me. They fail in trying to imitate me"
(I wanted to leave already, even though I was having a good
time). She asked me, "Why you say that?" "Hey kid, " I said,
"I really have to go ... but you forgot to write down your
phone number."

She sighed, in a good way, and wrote it down. To make
this short, I called her the same night, and she was, "Wow, I
was not expecting your call." I said, "No, I am calling you
because I forgot to wish you sweet dreams, and also checking
to see if you made it home safe." "That is so sweet of
you...," she said, and I told her that I ought to go. She
did not want me to, but I did leave. We met again, at her
house, and half an hour of me being there, and talking, I
said, "Look, I have to go." "What?! Why?" she asked. I
said, "Maybe you want to take a rest, or lay on your bed, and
you don't do it because I am here, unless you promise me that
if you lay in bed you will take me with you." She did not
say anything, nor smile, but jumped to me and kissed me.
Needless to say, I swear David, we had sex. It was great.

2007-09-01T07:31:00.000-07:00

Me- "Oh, so, I am the right person, you like this situation,
and overall, you feel comfortable."

She- "See, you are not shy at all."

Me- "I gotta go." Like you taught me, I turned around and
walked 3 steps away from her and went back to her, "I want
your e-mail address, because I feel less shy talking to you."

She- "Oh, sure, I would LOVE that."

Me- "You would love it? Hummm, so you like guys in the
evolutive process of not being shy, eh?"

She hit me on the shoulder, and I accused her, "Hey, that
is sexual harassment."

She laughed, and I said to my mind, "Kids, so easily getting
amused." She had not written her e-mail, and I asked her,
"Have you not written the e-mail because you forgot it?
Geeez, young people these days." (She is 29, and I am 21,
lol.)

2007-08-30T00:26:00.000-07:00

Me- "Excuse me, MS, do you work here (I know she does not
work there)?"

She- "No."

Me- "Good, I want you to help me find this book [I don't
say, 'Can you please help me...' I go with a demand of
authority... they like it]."

She- "What book is that," she asked me, as she gave me
that wondrous look.

Me- "Wow, you are indeed gorgeous ... you remind me the
PowerPC girls (she would be shocked, but liking it). See,
my problem is that I am a very shy guy, and I am trying to
get over it."

She- "What do you mean you are shy? You don't seem shy to
me." (By the way, this happened to me in real life, and
she was hot for real)

Me- "Aren't you shy?"

She - "Yeah."

Me- "You don't seem shy to me either."

She- "It depends on the situation, and with the person you
are talking to. Whether or not you feel comfortable."

2007-08-28T00:50:00.000-07:00

Yes, there is indeed a big difference between what you
have made of me now through the powerful insights expressed
in your newsletters, and who I was before I had met you. I
always thought that being nice, sweet, and courteous was an
ultimate-irrefutable way to get the girls we long to have,
but the irony is that we never make that dream come true.
Thanks my dear David, for showing me the Tao of being a
superb success with women, for walking with me hand by hand
through this mysterious path when it comes to women, because
really, most of the times they make no sense. I owe you my
present success with them, and I thank you in advance for
the foregoing prosperity that the future holds for me with
them.

I have always been funny, and separately, cocky. I never
put them together, like you put it, as a formula. So far,
that formula works. I am not a chemist, but the components
of our table salt, taken separately, is deadly to us.
Sodium and Chloride: death to us. Yet, if we put them
together, we will have its savory benefit. Same happens
when we use only being Cocky, and just being Funny: no
success, and it kills any possibilities of meeting girls.
When I talk to my friends about you, I say, "Guys, let's
make sure we use the Davidian formula, fusing the atoms of
Cockyness+Funny." Believe me, that is how we call it:
Davidian formula, lol. We have named it after you, because
you are its founder.

One of my favorite places to meeting people is
Barnes&Noble. It's easy to ignore someone you don't feel
attracted to, oh yes, very easy. It is all the opposite
when you do feel attracted to someone. Now, at Barnes&Noble,
in Downtown, I meet a lot of girls, from everywhere. Is
there a way to make fun of their beauty? I meet a lot of
hot girls, that seem to be perfect. My type are those with
Irish ascendance, because they are mostly honest and have
freckles. So, when I meet a girl with freckles, eyes like
a furious deep blue sea, or green eyes, like the stem of a
flower, petite women with attractively dainty build, nice
butt (we guys like it, come on), and round [breasts] (we
like that too). How can you make fun of that type of sexy
girl, when you notice that her body has a harmonious
symmetry, that does nothing but inspiring within you
pleasure and admiration?

I might feel nervous, but I don't show them my
nervousness. You have never told us not to feel nervous,
but not to behave nervous. I feel nervous, hell yeah, but
they can't tell. As a matter of a fact, one way I could
start a conversation with a hot girl is like this... e
of them don't work there)

2007-08-26T02:39:00.000-07:00

4) Those that are only interested in a long-term
relationship. We also have the sub-categories here...
Those that object to the kids, and those that don't.

My first question to YOU is: "Which type of woman are
YOU looking for?"

Sounds to me like you're looking for a #3, option B...
a woman who's interested in some short-term fun, who would
like to pursue a long-term relationship if she meets a
good match... and is open to the kids. (If you're only
looking for a woman who's after short term fun, then the
kids don't really matter. Just don't bring them up.)

My perspective: Date some women, and BLOW THEIR MINDS
with the techniques you've learned. Use the Cocky and
Funny material... dial up the ATTRACTION... if you get
physical with them, make it UNFORGETTABLE.

My experience is that if a person is REALLY ATTRACTED
to another person, they'll put aside all obstacles in
order to be with the object of their desires.

Yes, this means 4 kids and an ex.

If I were you, I'd project the attitude that you're
not interested in any woman that can't adapt to the
situation. Communicate that YOU'RE the one doing the
selecting, and it will cancel out a woman's objections
before they even arise. Think about it.

If you're reading this right now, and you're in a
situation in life where you'd like to get back on track
and start having more success with women and dating,
then I'd recommend that you download a copy of my online
eBook "Double Your Dating." It contains all of my very
best ideas and techniques for attracting women, and I
think you'll find that it will DRAMATICALLY increase
your success with women and dating.

2007-08-25T01:39:00.000-07:00

No matter what you do, you still must maintain a
balance.

So to answer your question about how to overcome
the objection to four kids...

First, realize that the women you're meeting fall
into roughly a few categories:

1) Those that aren't interested at all, no matter what.
Maybe they're gay, happily married, not interested...
or all of the above.

2) Those that are interested in being with you for some
short term fun, but aren't interested in a relationship
at all.

3) Those that are interested in short term fun while
they're single, but would like to pursue a relationship
if they meet a good match. Here we have two sub-
categories: A) Those that object to the four kids thing,
and B) Those that don't.

Go figure.

2007-08-23T00:37:00.000-07:00

The point is that when you made the comment about
the qualities that make up "nice guy" don't really help
you out when it comes to women and dating, you REALLY
hit the nail on the head.

It's not that you have to be an abusive-loser-jerk, but
you must realize that there are certain qualities that
aren't what one might consider "nice-guyish" that PUSH
THE ATTRACTION BUTTONS inside of women.

These are the things like being Cocky and Funny,
teasing women, busting on them, and generally being a
challenge.

If you decide that a woman you've met is "long term"
relationship material, then you can start doing the
things that you'd do with someone who has earned your
respect and trust. It's at this point that doing "nice
guy" things makes more sense.

BUT WATCH OUT! Don't unexpectedly turn in to Mr.
Wussy just because a woman wants to have a relationship
with you. Nothing can make a woman want to be "just
friends" faster...

2007-08-22T00:50:00.000-07:00

5) There are certain techniques that can be learned
which will help you get past the initial meeting and
dating period... and help you not only stand out as a
"not average" guy, but also create the magical emotion
of ATTRACTION inside women.

6) The great news is that you don't have to be ultra
handsome, rich, or famous to do it.

The gist of what I'm saying is that if you know how
to create this ATTRACTION inside of women, then you can
overcome just about any "social stigma" that might be
attached to you (yes, even 4 kids!).

Some people get upset when they read about my
techniques... they don't like the idea of making fun of
a woman, busting her balls, being Cocky and Funny, etc.

They just want to "be themselves" and have a woman
"like them for who they are".

Of course, these same guys ALMOST ALWAYS like to
buy women flowers and dinner, give compliments, accept
manipulative behavior... and generally do ALL KINDS OF
THINGS that I consider "very manipulative" and "not-at-
all-being-yourself" kinds of behavior.

2007-08-21T00:57:00.000-07:00

Of course, not every man experiences things in exactly
the same way, but you can probably empathize with what
I'm saying.

Here's the deal:

I USED TO BE EXACTLY LIKE THIS. I know EXACTLY what
it's like to want a woman's attention but not know how
to get it... so I'd give compliments, offer gifts and
food, and try every other "nice" trick in the book.

I did this for a long time. Many years, in fact.

I used this strategy long enough to realize a few
key things:

1) Approaching women this way doesn't usually work. They
immediately sense your insecurity, and mentally classify
you as "average" and "like the other 10 guys that
approached her today", etc.

2) ATTRACTION is a completely illogical process.
ATTRACTION also isn't a choice. ATTRACTION is a response
to certain things... and it happens on it's own.

3) Being a good guy is an important part of life.
Treating others well and always doing the right thing
leads to things like: A) Liking yourself, B) Happiness,
C) Good friendships, etc.

4) Being a "nice guy" when it comes to women and dating,
especially when it is used enough to make you qualify as
a WUSSY is a REALLY REALLY BAD idea.

2007-08-19T14:24:00.000-07:00

In your email you point out something very, very, VERY
interesting. You say:

"I've always considered myself a nice guy, considerate,
caring, etc. You know, how mother taught you to be.
I've realized that those qualities are great of course,
but don't help a lot in the dating scene."

Well said.

It is SO important that guys understand the distinction
between "dating scene" and "long-term relationship scene"
when it comes to women and interacting with them.

Many of the things that make a long-term relationship
great will KILL your chances INSTANTLY with a woman that
you don't know. I'll talk about this more in a moment.

I think that as guys, most of us want to do the right
thing, treat others well, and live with integrity.

There are, of course, exceptions to this rule, but I
think that most of us know at a very deep level that
treating others well, being honest, having integrity,
and living an authentic life leads to happiness... while
being dishonest, treating others poorly, putting our
integrity aside for selfish reasons, etc. leads to that
constant, negative, dragging state of body and mind.

The problem arises when we go out into the world to
find a mate. It matters not whether we're looking for a
wife or a one-night stand...

As soon as we see a really attractive woman, most of
us guys become nervous, self conscious, and insecure. We
feel excitement and fear at the same time. The first
impulse is to approach and give compliments in a way
that says "You are a beautiful goddess, and I am a mere
mortal man... Please, if you would, see your way clear
to give me a chance to show you how much I adore you."

If the goddess indulges us for a moment, the next
impulse is usually to provide gifts and food, and to
show her what a great provider we are.

2007-08-19T02:04:00.000-07:00

On a side note. This is a strange success story here
(if you can consider it that haha). Like I said
before I was married, and she is a really beautiful
woman. Just for the hell of it I decided to start
using the c&f routine on her every chance I could (we
still get along pretty good as "friends", btw). I
thought it would be good "practice". Anyway, last
weekend I was over dropping off my kids, and she says
"JC". I said, "what?". I walk over to her bedroom
(where she was at) and she says out of the blue "get
on the bed now!" She was kidding and it threw me for
a loop, but I just said "in your dreams!" Shocked she
said, "WHAT?" I replied with, "maybe in our next
lifetime". I then proceeded to end the conversation
and leave quickly after that (had a date haha). Two
nights ago she calls me at home, and basically asked
me out. I said what the hell! So, we went out last
night (kids were at her sisters), and let's just say
that after 3 years of not having sex with her, I
forgot what I was missing!! So there's one for you,
"how to get your ex wife in bed with you again!!"
LMAO In case you're wondering, no way no how, will I
ever go back to that relationship (but sex on the
other hand..hell yes!). There's a different kind of
"success" story for you!

Hi,

2007-08-16T23:47:00.000-07:00

I've read your newsletter for a few months now and
just recently got your book which is fantastic. First
off a little background here. I was married for 11
years (I'm 33) and basically was either dating or
married to same person for 13 years. I have been
divorced now for a few months, and was actually
separated for over a year before I got divorced.
Having been out of the dating scene for so long I was
pretty much clueless (a lot has changed). I've always
been a very funny guy and cocky to an extent, but in
many ways what you would consider a "wuss". I've
always considered myself a nice guy, considerate,
caring, etc. You know, how mother taught you to be.
I've realized that those qualities are great of
course, but don't help a lot in the dating scene. Once
I started more of the cocky routine, it's been
amazing. Like I said, I've always been funny so I
guess I have a head start already.

Anyway, I've had some really "hot" dates in the past
couple months with the help of your book, but one of
the biggest problems I have in getting dates is the
fact I have been divorced and have 4 kids. I don't
consider this a problem whatsoever, they're a huge
part of my life, but I know the way women think
sometimes and view this as "baggage". Is there any
advice you could give me on how I can incorporate some
of your philosophies and techniques into over coming
this persona of "baggage" and help me attract more
women?

2007-08-14T00:35:00.000-07:00

Thanks again,

J.K. Michigan

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well what else can I say? I have to agree with you that
EVERY guy should buy this book.

It's taken me literally YEARS to figure all this stuff
out, and you can learn it all in a few hours of reading.

You'll learn everything from how to get your self image
in shape to how to approach women to how to take things
to a physical level without rejection.

Just to to:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/ebook/

...now and get yourself a copy. It's the best investment
you can make in your dating future... and it comes with
my 100% no-hassle money-back guarantee. If you're not
THRILLED with your investment, just email and ask for a
refund. It's that simple... and I'm that confident that
you're going to love it.

And I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

***If you'd like to send me a Success Story, Question,
or Comment, follow these guidelines***

1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs max.

2) Tell me what's working for you before you ask your
question. I appreciate all of the "Your stuff is great"
and "I don't need to tell you how well your stuff works"
comments, but the fact is that I DO need to hear all of
the specifics... because this helps other guys to see
what's working in different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write "Success Story" in
the subject line of the email. I read these first.

4) At the end of the email, give me your initials and tell
me where you're from.

5) Send it to me at:

SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com

DATING TIP: "NICE" GUYS FINISH DATE-LESS
Q&A With David D.: Why Being A "Nice Guy" Doesn't Work When
It Comes To Dating... And What To Do About It

This week I got a great email from a guy who has gone
through an interesting process. He found himself single
after 11 years of marriage, and he's re-learning the skills
it takes to attract women. Even though most of us aren't in
this exact situation, I think you'll learn a lot from this
Q&A session... and the story has a great twist at the very
end... Enjoy!

2007-08-13T00:01:00.000-07:00

***MORE SUCCESS***

You are the man! I am an 18 year old who just graduated
from high school, I downloaded your book about 2 months
ago. In that time I have gotten with 3 hot chicks and made
the 2 most gorgeous girls at my high school to dump their
boyfriends and come crawling to me just by busting their
balls WHENEVER I talk to them, or any girl, whether it be
online or in person. I have dated many girls, including the
2 gorgeous ones, and things would go good for awhile, but
then I would get wussy syndrome and they would give me the
boot. Now I am in total control of the girls from my school
and I cant wait to go to college this fall and use your
techniques to make the GORGEOUS girls come to me. I'll keep
ya posted about all the success I will have with college
chicks. I have more confidence than ever. Every guy should
buy this book.

2007-08-12T05:25:00.000-07:00

>>>MY COMMENTS:

You have harnessed one of the most important concepts for
creating ATTRACTION:

ANTICIPATION.

Women respond VERY powerfully to anticipation, and you've
used it masterfully.

You kept on teasing her with ideas, then leaning back and
not letting her know when things were going to progress.

Your short paragraph is an amazing example of what TO do.

Thanks for the story.

2007-08-10T14:04:00.000-07:00

***SUCCESS STORY***

I met a woman through the internet. She had several pictures
and a good profile posted. I tried to keep our conversation
fun. I suggested that we meet some time for coffee or a
toddy. She told me she didn't want to meet me because I
would then stop sending her such great emails. I sent her
an email, "What makes you think they won't get better"? She
sent her phone number. I didn't ask to meet her again for about
a week. She mailed me and said, How will you know if you like
or don't like me?" I mailed back, "I will know when we touch".
I met her for a drink. I sat across from her. We talked for a
long time. Then I asked to see her hand. I took it in mine and
lightly kissed it. She was trembling. I went to the mens room
and when I returned I sat next to her. I touched and fondled
her hair and commented that it was pretty and she was also. I
reached for her hand again. She was trembling. I knew I could
safely kiss her then.

JB Little Rock, AR

2007-08-10T01:11:00.000-07:00

***COMMENT***

Dave,

Just a quick note to say this stuff works just like pressing
a button. I have two teenage sons entering the dating world.
So, wanting to make sure they would be big "Mack daddies",
like their old man, I got your book. And of course I had to
preview all the material to insure quality and readability.
I laughed my a.. off! Even though I am happily married, I
could not resist using the C&F, just to mess with them.
Now I've got to stop! Ladies of all ages, some nearly half
my age (43), coming on to me. And I mean heavy duty
obsessions. I am AFRAID! Guys, be careful with this stuff!

Guy in Florida

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Amazing.

What's up with you being the coolest dad that I've personally
ever heard of in my entire life?!

Emails like this one actually warm my heart.

Of course, I love making fun of girly-men too, but this is
just out of control.

If you're a father of teenage boys, do them a favor and teach
them the skills they'll need later on.

At this stage you can weave ethics and responsibility into
the materials, and make sure that they learn how to use
the power with responsibility, rather than just learning
to be jerks later in life who abuse women.

It's a great idea.

2007-08-08T14:25:00.000-07:00

Why is it that I tend to believe you more than the
girl at the beginning of this mailbag who was all upset
because I'm messing up her game?

As for your guy friend, I think he knows EXACTLY what's
going on.

And because he's not acting like a typical loser wienie
wussy boy, you're REALLY getting into him.

I think you should play hard to get a little more, and
start dating other guys, then tell HIM about it! See
what his reaction is. This will settle the matter for
you...

Thanks for your email, and don't forget the pictures.

2007-08-06T00:28:00.000-07:00

***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***

I starting reading your Dating Tips from a guy friend who
prints them out and has them at his house. Mostly for the
sake of curiosity and to see if you were really right. And
any girl that disagrees is totally not being honest, all
your stuff was right on. Your kiss test, perfect, the cocky
and funny attitude, I love, even if I act like I don't
sometimes. Your approach to women is exactly what girls
like. It's awesome how your helping guys out by sharing
your experience and giving them pointers so they can become
more confident. There is nothing less attractive than a
wuss, I will totally be into a guy until he starts acting
like a wuss and I loose all interest in him. I'm glad your
letting guys know that.

I don't know if you give advice to girls but, while I'm
writing, I have a really good guy friend, we hang out
probably twice a week (he always calls to hang out, I won't
call guys unless we are in a relationship) he
confuses the hell out of me. He'll tell me about his dates
and ask advice from me, which makes me think he just
considers me a friend. But then I'll be laying in his lap
and he'll be rubbing my head and playing with my hair. What
do you think he thinks of me? May seem like an obvious
answer but he really does confuse me. Hey, maybe he reads
your stuff.

Anyway, I thought I'd write and let you know that your
right on the money, which you probably already do know, but
I read that email from that other girl (the one with the
grammar and spelling problem) and was kind of ticked, she
obviously doesn't know what she's talking about and is
probably twelve by the way she was talking. Thanks for
helping all these guys out and telling them what we really
love!

V.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I love honest women. You forgot to include your phone
number and several classy-yet-sexy pictures of yourself
with your email.

2007-08-04T14:45:00.000-07:00

Put that in your pipe and smoke it.

In the land of female perception and interpretation,
things are strange. But if you can get it through your
head to stop trying to communicate directly and
explicitly most of the time, you'll do much better all
the way around.

2007-08-02T14:11:00.000-07:00

If you say "I just want to be friends" a woman might
thing "What he REALLY means is that he's not attracted
to me... maybe there's something wrong here because
most men fall all over themselves. Maybe I don't look
good today. Maybe I'm losing my beauty. Oh yea? I'll
show him... I'm going to MAKE him feel attracted to me!"

2007-08-01T23:57:00.000-07:00

Whatever.

Thanks for the email, and maybe you're going to have to
beat all those guys off with a stick.

I know, I know, but sometimes I just can't help myself...

***QUESTION***

I met a lady and was funny and cocky, but I was too
forward about sex and she blew me off. The next time I
met her, I said "I only want to be friends", then I
gave her a foot, leg and a head rub. She allowed me to
continue this as I explained why we could only be
friends. I later gave the kiss test and it was fireworks
from there. My question is: Why did telling her I only
wanted to be friends totally change how she reacted to
me?

Confused and Satisfied.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Oh, don't get me started on why reverse psychology works
with women...

Here's a little insight for you:

WOMEN DON'T GENERALLY TAKE ANYTHING AT FACE VALUE, THEY
ARE ALWAYS TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHAT EVERYTHING "MEANS".

In other words, if you say "You're beautiful" a woman
might think "What he REALLY means is that he wants to
get into my pants".

2007-07-30T23:57:00.000-07:00

***QUESTION***

Kind Regards,

S

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Oh lord. I'm slapping my head right now... somebody stop me.

Someone needs to shake the Wuss out of you!

Wake up, and stop this immediately!

You need serious help before you hurt yourself. Go to:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/ebook/

...before it's too late. And maybe read a couple of Wayne
Dyer books from the 70s so you can get control of those
emotions. You're freaking me out over here.

***SUCCESS STORY***

Hey dave you rock man i have been using your techniques
for about 6 months, and i can't believe how good it
works..Not only that but most of my friends want to know
what the hell i am doing to get all these girls, I have
actually picked up and slept with three different girls
this week , and if i had more free time it could have
been more like 4 or 5. There are 2 problems though that
i do find, when i have girls always hanging around me i
find that there are always guys that want to hang around
me too, and no word of a lie i have had guys buy me
drinks just to hang out with me, Maybe you should write
another book how to keep the pathetic males away from
the c$f technique, i'll never let the cat out of the bag
the best i can do for them is give them your website :)
2) The more girls i date the more confident i get which
means loooook out ladies...lolol :) seeeya dave keep up
the good work, also try to get a seminar in Toronto k

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well then, you're tearing it up out there.

Your techniques are working so well that even GUYS are
attracted to you. I don't know whether to kiss your or
tell you to tone it down.

Maybe neither.