ONE DEFAULT THING TO DO IN ANY SITUATION

One of the concepts that I really think is valuable to
get a handle on is called "Always have one default thing to
do in every common situation."

It's amazing to me when I watch a guy interacting with a
woman, and everything is going well... and then it's time
for him to either step up and make something happen, or
walk away like the wussy he is for NOT taking action...