Wednesday, June 27, 2007

DATING TIP: A SECRET TO USE TONIGHT

This Dating Tip is going to be short and to the point.

There's a HUGE mistake that I see guys making ALL THE
TIME when it comes to women and dating.

And it goes a little somethin' like this...

GUYS OFTEN MAKE THE MISTAKE OF "SELLING" TOO FAR IN
ADVANCE INSTEAD OF JUST GETTING TO THE NEXT STEP.

For example, let's say that a guy is talking to a woman
at a coffee shop. Maybe she's sitting at the next table over
and they strike up a conversation about the weather.

Further, let's say that the woman is unusually attractive
and the man is unusually AVERAGE in his approach and method
of communicating that he's interested.

This guy might say something like:

"So, let me guess... you have a boyfriend, right?"

Or...

"OK, I have to tell you... I find you really attractive
and I'd like to take you out sometime."

I'm sure you've seen this kind of thing a thousand times
in your life.

But what's going on here? Is the guy actually asking a
casual question?

HELL NO.

The guy is literally communicating that he'd like to
PURSUE A RELATIONSHIP with the woman.

Yea, and even worse, he's doing it within a few minutes
of meeting her!

Explained differently, the guy is trying to sell the
woman on a relationship in the future based on five minutes
of conversation.