Of course, not every man experiences things in exactly
the same way, but you can probably empathize with what
I'm saying.

Here's the deal:

I USED TO BE EXACTLY LIKE THIS. I know EXACTLY what
it's like to want a woman's attention but not know how
to get it... so I'd give compliments, offer gifts and
food, and try every other "nice" trick in the book.

I did this for a long time. Many years, in fact.

I used this strategy long enough to realize a few
key things:

1) Approaching women this way doesn't usually work. They
immediately sense your insecurity, and mentally classify
you as "average" and "like the other 10 guys that
approached her today", etc.

2) ATTRACTION is a completely illogical process.
ATTRACTION also isn't a choice. ATTRACTION is a response
to certain things... and it happens on it's own.

3) Being a good guy is an important part of life.
Treating others well and always doing the right thing
leads to things like: A) Liking yourself, B) Happiness,
C) Good friendships, etc.

4) Being a "nice guy" when it comes to women and dating,
especially when it is used enough to make you qualify as
a WUSSY is a REALLY REALLY BAD idea.