I've never really liked your approach, even though I have no
doubt that it works... personally it rubs me up the wrong way,
and I'd rather go out with a guy who'd listen to my problems.
But hey, maybe I'm a one off. However, though I'm a girl I've
been trying out your C&F routine for a while. Funnily enough
it works just as well for men as it does for girls... I think
partly because guys are so shocked that a girl would go about
ball busting them, but also be flirtatious at the same time.
My favorite move is to always refuse any free drink offers,
yet keep up the C&F routine. ("why, do you think you have to
buy me or something?") It seems to send guys into a tailspin.
Keep up the good work.