Go figure.

The point is that when you made the comment about
the qualities that make up "nice guy" don't really help
you out when it comes to women and dating, you REALLY
hit the nail on the head.

It's not that you have to be an abusive-loser-jerk, but
you must realize that there are certain qualities that
aren't what one might consider "nice-guyish" that PUSH
THE ATTRACTION BUTTONS inside of women.

These are the things like being Cocky and Funny,
teasing women, busting on them, and generally being a
challenge.

If you decide that a woman you've met is "long term"
relationship material, then you can start doing the
things that you'd do with someone who has earned your
respect and trust. It's at this point that doing "nice
guy" things makes more sense.

BUT WATCH OUT! Don't unexpectedly turn in to Mr.
Wussy just because a woman wants to have a relationship
with you. Nothing can make a woman want to be "just
friends" faster...