Oh, don't stress about it.

If I were in your situation, I'd tell women something like:

"OK, do you have a car? Good, because my lease just ended
and I'm between cars... and a woman without a car just
isn't an option for me."

Turn it around and make it something funny! Make it a
qualification that a woman has to meet...

I would. Great opportunity for Cocky and Funny!



***QUESTION***


Hi David -

DYD, and your newsletter, rock!

I was wondering if you are planning any seminars that might
be closer to where I am than L.A.? I am based in Tokyo,
Japan...

How about Hawaii?

B.T.


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, I'm getting GREAT feedback for the New York seminar,
and I'd love to do others.

I've gotten emails from all around the world saying "Come
do a seminar in Australia" etc.

I would have to have enough guys coming for it to make
sense, because doing a seminar costs more than one might
think. And doing one on the other side of the world from
me would be pricey.

OK, for kicks I set up a few email addresses to get some
feedback (I just did it on the spot). If you'd be interested
in attending a seminar with me, do this:

1. Go to http://www.doubleyourdating.com/seminar/ and read
about the seminar, price, and details.

2. Send an email to one of the following addresses to let
me know which you'd be interested in attending:

Australia: auseminar@doubleyourdating.com
Europe: europeseminar@doubleyourdating.com
Japan: japanseminar@doubleyourdating.com
Hawaii: hawaiiseminar@doubleyourdating.com
Chicago: chicagoseminar@doubleyourdating.com

Again, go read about the seminar, then email one of the
above addresses to tell that you'd be interested in
attending... thanks!



***QUESTION***

Hey Dave!

Just wanted to say that your C+F techniques work like magic -
they have such a strong impact that sometimes a girl can just
say "I love you" literally half an hour into the conversation.
or things like "you are the only person who seems to
understand me", or "i've never met anyone like you before!"
I especially like situations when they ask you for some favor
like a drink, to take them out to a club/bar, or simply to
hold something... immediately I say .."... And what am I
gonna get in return?" They freeze for a sec and then usually
say: "A hug", "a kiss", "or anything you like" lol depending
on the situation I may say "Nah, not good enough..." and then
say "go do it yourself" or something along the lines.
Anyways, I was sitting in one pizza place with one of these
chicks and she asked me to take her to some exclusive place
I know and I said my phrase (above). I was expecting she'd
say "anything you like when we get there" but instead she
backfired: "ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!" - I froze for a sec - and
then I said that it wasn't good enough... lol and she nodded
and smiled (it's like she knew I was in the game) but still,
it was the first time I heard such a response and I was
wondering what you would say the best response is to this
sort of situations/comments! Everyone get the Book! It's a
treasure!!

B.