Then I get an email saying "I want to be nice and sweet
and a good guy but still have all the super hot women
calling me 24/7".

Here's what I say:

"BEING YOURSELF" IS A PRIVELEGE THAT YOU HAVE TO EARN,
NOT A RIGHT.

And the way that you earn it is to learn what it takes
to make women feel ATTRACTION, learn what it takes to
NOT drive women away, then make these things part of
"YOURSELF".