DATING TIP: DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ATTRACTION AND AFFECTION

If you've been reading my newsletters, and you've
read my book "Double Your Dating", then there's a good
chance that somewhere along the way you've said to
yourself "Does this guy think that long-term relationships
are healthy?"

To set the record books straight, I want to say:

Yes, I think that long-term relationships are wonderful,
healthy, and can be a great source of joy and happiness.

In fact, I've had many of them myself, and have enjoyed
some great times as a result.

But here's the distinction: If you don't learn how to
a woman feel ATTRACTED to you at the VERY BEGINNING, then
you are taking a HUGE risk. Namely, that you're going to
invest all of your time, effort, energy, emotions, gifts,
money, and life pursuing someone who may or may not ever
feel the same way about you.

If, on the other hand, you master the art of making
women feel that GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION using only your
personality, then you won't be GAMBLING as much when it
comes to women and relationships.

NOTE: My experience is that many of the things that
us guys do to try to attract a woman, i.e. buying gifts,
doing favors, etc. actually lead to the woman finding us
UN-attractive, because she sees these as needy behaviors
performed by a weak man that hide ulterior motives.

I think that long-term relationships are great. I
just don't like the idea of investing a lot of time,
energy, and money if I have no idea whether a girl even
likes me! No thanks.

How much better it is to know how to make a woman
feel that excitement, tension, and attraction at the
VERY BEGINNING. This way you're not out-of-control,
wondering where you stand. Then, if you decide that
this is someone that you'd like to spend more time
with in the future, you can start doing more
traditional "relationship" things (if YOU choose).

A relationship based on two people enjoying
each other's company and personalities is FAR stronger,
in my opinion, than one based on gifts, money and
favors.

Take a moment right now, and think about the
difference between ATTRACTION and AFFECTION. Think
about the things that make you feel ATTRACTED to a
woman, and then think about the things that make you
feel AFFECTION for a woman.