Hello David,

Much of your information is insightful, and educational.
However, I think the heart of the matter in regards to men's
fear of women, is the fact that men see what attracts them
in a woman, only it requires a theatrical performance that
puts them on stage. The real fear is a result of one's own
inner psychology working against their conscious brain, that
if the verbal presentation isn't met with approval then the
result is personal rejection by a woman who meant so much in
one's own mind, which is taken personally due to it's sexual
ramifications, an absence of sex. Comedians call it shtick,
and without a well rehearsed comedic routine, then there
indeed is something to be nervous about. Women are very much
like a rabid dog, keenly smelling fear and able to inflict
personal pain, the key is to approach not only without fear,
but with indifference so as not to get bit with total
rejection. Men are better at dealing with physical scars
than the psychological ones, which take far longer to heal,
and some don't. Unlike a man, women are totally unforgiving,
and every man knows this, and this is the "fulcrum of fear",
knowing we are coming in for the approach without power and
it must be done to her unknown mental terrain... right now.
The difficulty for women is the fact that society places
beauty on a pedestal, which automatically inflates their ego
far beyond what they can handle. Pretty girls get off on
rejecting men, it feeds the ego quite nicely. It's the
equivalent of the school bully beating up all the other boys,
only women do it psychologically using their beauty and then
rejection. And unlike the physical presence of a battered
victim, the feelings are invisible and go unnoticed, without
any regard for the psychological result. Absence of fear
(calmness)and indifference (self control)eliminates a woman's
psychological control. This power is what they are born with
if attractive. Combine this with a biological hormonal
imbalance and you have... a beautiful rabid bad dog. They
are also in a unique circumstance that is making them more
dysfunctional with the progression of time especially in the
United States. They are gaining more power in the world as
playing the role that men have (psychological strength), and
yet are to be receptive sexually to a man's advances
(psychological submissive). This is a total dichotomy whose
result is confusion in their own minds and rejection feeds
the new power that fuels the immediate psychological
satisfaction through self gratification. This is far more
prevalent in the industrial countries than in the third
world, where a woman's naked breast is a thing of beauty
that is not even noticed. Here in the U.S. a nude breast is
taboo, and met with nervous arrest. Thus the difficulty in
attempting to communicate with the opposite sex is three
dimensional, being biological, psychological, and cultural.
Did I mention their interests are the opposite of most men?
Don't get me started....