After being
recently divorced (Dec/01) after 24 yrs and thoroughly
confused about dating and what women want. I bought
[another dating book] and was even more scared to do any of
what was asked to do. I bought your course and coupled with
watching the players in clubs I knew C&F was the answer.
I used it successfully on over (9) women since Jan/02 all
resulting in them wanting much, much more* than I was
willing to give. They all call from time-to-time for fun!.

*Here is where I have the problem and it might help others
trying for this type of relationship. I am single and love
my Space and I want to have fun for a while and eventually
marry again I’m looking for Her and it takes a while to see
if she is Her I get them hooked way too fast and not trying
to do so This is how: Women are attracted to C&F, They want
fun and excitement; I think I know why they want funny for
the fun things to do in life (too many boring guys out
there) and the cocky part piques their inner flames to what
could happen as far as passion. If when you are passionate
with them you have to be a Leader and show them as bad a boy
as they can handle. This has in all instances so far lead
them to call me and pursue me: the next day and weeks ahead.
They want a far deeper relationship. They want C&F in their
lives. These are not clingy people (7-9’s)(24-44yrs) and
profess to want to be friends first. Email is great as it has
a way of helping them say things they wished they could say
in person. Do you have any wisdom on how to do C&F and not
hit all of her senses?

Thanks Again for C&F
J.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

lol... you poor, poor dear. Sounds tough, really.

I think you're doing fine. You're on the right track, and
I think that you're going to find an outstanding woman to
have a longer-term relationship with.

I personally think that the problem isn't the techniques
you're using, it's that you're now seeing that YOU CAN
CHOOSE A WOMAN, rather than having HER CHOOSE YOU... and
it's making you far more SELECTIVE than you were in the
past.

When you're seeing several attractive women at the same
time, you begin to realize that you can have whatever
you want. You no longer have to settle.