***QUESTION***

Dear Dave,

I'm real sorry but I still cannot figure out how to build
bridges after getting the email address. Normally the next
day I send the lady an email, she replies and then I can't
think what on earth else to do. My overall goal is to get
with her - so can you help me man?

I.M.


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yes, I think I can help.

1. Set up a meeting for tea.
2. Have her stop by your place on the way to tea.
3. Have fun, interesting conversation.
4. Invite her back to your place.
5. Use the Kiss Test.
6. Use your creativity and imagination.

Don't focus too much on "getting with her", just focus on
getting to THE NEXT STEP.

In other words, when you email don't say something like:

"Hi, it was great meeting you. I'm single and nice, and
you seem like you'd make a great girlfriend for a sweet,
desperate loser like myself."

Stay off of heavy conversation. Don't talk about
relationships and marriage, etc. Just talk and enjoy
yourself. But keep progressing as you do.

As long as you relax and make each progressive step
easy and natural, you'll be fine.

Again, just take it one step at a time.


***QUESTION***

Hi David:

I’m 42 and a bald, average, confident guy.