***QUESTION***

Dave:
I downloaded your book a couple months ago, and read your
newsletters regularly. I have had success with women and
it's great. Here's my question. It's a common fact that
humans never stop learning, and you are no exception. What
new information have you learned recently that can
supplement the book? Can your subscribers expect a follow-up
booklet in the near future? I don't mean to be ungrateful
but now that I have read your book I feel like the most
well-informed man in the dating game. Knowledge is power and
the more I have the more power I have. Watch out ladies!!!
Can you help me out? I know you have the knowledge
thanks a lot

G- Texas

>MY COMMENTS:


***QUESTION***


Yes Dave, you are 100% correct. Even us older, fatter,
grayer, slower wusses can learn new tricks. I went from a
4 time loser to being called biggest old stud in town! Now
that was a hell of an ego boost! Especially since I'm 48
and close to 300 lbs. and yes, at the moment, I have steady
dates for 3 days of the week every week and 5 others
professing their love for me if only I will come take them
away.

Here are what I found to work:

1) Women over 35 expect you to be extremely inventive with
a cocky funny line or extremely truthful. They all claim it
is because they have had so many used on them, they are
totally immune to them. I tend to go the extremely truthful
route. the ie. you look like the type of woman who would
like a funny witty, intelligent, romantic friend. Have you
found any lately??? I want to shake their hand. Or something
similar.

2) If you are emailing back and forth and they want your
picture within the first couple of exchanges, run do not
walk, that lady to the discard pile immediately. Most of
those are so shallow they can not and will not see what
they are doing, no matter how funny and blunt you are. I
even tried the "what’s in it for me?" line, only to get the
reply of "me stupid, but only if I like your picture"

3) When the lady says I don't think I'm really your type,
you look them straight in the eye and say "ok, plenty more
where you came from" and turn and walk away. 9 out of 10
of them will be calling you in 48 hours.

4) They all know about arranging dates for the week and
finding the dates on the weekend. So tell them you only
have like Friday, Saturday OR Sunday open but not all.
Most will tell you to rearrange your week to fit them in.
The ones really really interested will call you on Saturday
to see if you can go out on the spur of the moment.

5) I tell them all I am too much to handle and too much to
love, so being friends is just perfect. But I have zero
experience in this dating more than one woman thing at a
time. Do you have any advice. Especially since I am sure
to make a lot of mistakes. Yeah, they all want to arrange
more time with me.

So you see, your techniques work. Even my 21 y/o daughter
who reads these occasionally says, "I can't agree all the
way, but damn he sure got the last 5 guys I dated nailed"

Keep up the good work Dave.

M.