Well, after working on this for a long time, I have come
to the following NEW realizations:

1) The opposite of fear isn't confidence. The opposite of
fear is absence of fear.

2) Confidence can help, but it isn't the only answer to this
particular issue.

3) The MAJOR issue is insecurity. Once a person can get past
their insecurity, they are more free to develop and succeed.

4) The only power a woman has over you is that which you
give her - either on a conscious level or on an unconscious
level.

5) If you have issues with fear, nervousness, insecurity,
etc., it's a good idea to put aside your tough, manly,
"I don't need any help" side, and go find a solution.