MY COMMENTS:

Phew. That was kind of intense.

Clearly the words of a guy who's been there.

I would like to comment on one thing. You said something
in the middle that stood out as a gem:

"Absence of fear (calmness) and indifference (self control)
eliminates a woman's psychological control."

This is a profound thought. I think that men everywhere
need to get this idea at a deep level.

I was listening to India Arie's album, which I think is
pretty cool (As Butthead would say "Chickth Dig It").

She has a song on the album called "Back To The Middle".

I think that us guys tend to get too far to one extreme
or the other when it comes to women.

We either see them as "innocent girls" who just need a guy
to be nice, buy them dinner, protect them, etc. in order
to get their love and approval...

Or we see them as cold, hardened, ice-hearted control
freaks who emotionally and psychologically manipulate us.

My experience is that most women fall in the middle of
this range, and they will act differently in different
situations. If you act like a wussy, call 47 times a day,
devote yourself to her, and become a complete emotional
suckerfish, she's likely to get so repulsed that she'll
walk all over your sensitive little feelings with her
stiletto heels.

If you she favors you and becomes emotionally attached,
then you take advantage of her and abuse her emotionally
and psychologically, then you might see the more frail
and weak side.

On the other hand, if you "Come back to the middle" and
cultivate more indifference while lessening your
insecurity, you can bypass a lot of this extreme and
unhealthy stuff.

"Absence of fear (calmness) and indifference (self control)
eliminates a woman's psychological control."