>>>MY COMMENTS:

Wow, more priceless wisdom.

To answer your question, the way to see more than one
woman at a time is to NOT SEE ANY OF THEM TOO OFTEN.

When you see or talk to a woman more than once or twice
a week, it kicks in the natural "relationship" emotions
and patterns of communication and behavior.

If you keep things to once a week, and sometimes twice,
you'll tend to avoid this.

It's also good to tell the women that you're seeing that
you don't think it's a good idea to get into a relationship
too quickly with someone you just met (I believe this is
a very important idea, myself).

Thanks for the great ideas.


***QUESTION***

Hi David,

I thoroughly enjoyed reading your book...very enlightening.
I've always found myself attracting girls I'm not
romantically interested in, while crashing and burning with
the hotties. It was very confusing until I read your book.
I realize now that I was a wuss with the hotties by being a
typical "nice guy", and that the more I acted indifferent
with the girls I didn't like, the more they ate it up. You
gave me a new perspective on what makes attraction work,
and I'm glad to see that your book pointed out that you
don't have to be a jerk to be successful.

My game has improved but it still requires some refining.
Lately I find I'm stalling out between the first and second
date. So I'm wondering if I'm screwing up the date itself or
the follow-through. Here are the steps I take after a date:

1) I call within two days to say I had a good time and
basically make contact. I end the conversation first, and
let her know I'll give her a shout in a couple days...just
so I don't seem like I'm rushing into a second date.

2) I let two or three days pass and call to make
arrangements for a second date. At this point I usually
get a vague answer like "lets set something up for next
week"...and then it never happens.

Where is this falling apart and what kind of follow-through
do you use?

Thanks for the help,

SF
London, Ontario