Hi David!

I just broke with my wife of six years. So I´m starting
the game again. I went to a club this past weekend and
saw a very nice looking girl. She was looking at me a
lot. So I waited around ten minutes and then approach and
asked her, "Are you shy or something?" She said, Why? And
I told her "Because I've been standing here for around ten
minutes and you still haven't said hi to me." As you can
imagine she burst laughing. So I said, Hey, I'm glad you
know how to laugh. She said, So, is this the way you go
out meeting girls. I said, Nah, it's that every time I go
to some place that have girls present they all seem to
get very shy around me, since I'm such a great looking,
sexy man, AS you can see. (Said with a wink).

She kind of blush and smile. We talk for around ten
minutes and I then said, Well, let me see if I can find
my friends around here, It was a pleasure talking to you.
When I was leaving I did your e-mail close and it ran
smoothly. She put her phone number too and a note that
said, "No, I'm not shy, call me soon, C."

E.Q. From Puerto Rico

MY COMMENTS:

Wow, now I've got attractive 18 year old women who are
trying to figure out how to get men to talk to them.

IS ANYONE OUT THERE LISTENING?

I've actually met MANY women who say that they either
aren't approached often, or when they are it's the same
old lame, boring stuff time after time...

"Can I take you out sometime?"

"So you probably have a boyfriend, right?"

Or guys just watch with the "I wish I wasn't such a
total and complete WUSSY because you're very attractive
and I'd give one of my front teeth in exchange for just
one chance to talk to you" look.

Ugh.

In any event, YES, this stuff works on guys. In fact, it
works on just about everyone. Damn shame you even need
to ask.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

OK, first of all, WHY THE HELL DIDN'T YOU INCLUDE YOUR
PHONE NUMBER?

I was just thinking to myself:

"You know, it sure would be great to meet an athletic,
feminine woman with a good job... maybe an architect or
something."

I don't know about the conservative, no cussing thing...
maybe I could adapt.

But to my credit, I'm NOT squishy, I have NO IDEA how to
make a strawberry daiquiri, and I hate purse shopping. I
do, however like to host an occasional tupperware party.

Think about it and get back to me.

Oh, back to your comments...

Thank you for writing in and providing another perspective.
I wish that more women would be as open and honest about
what attracts them.

I personally think that women like you who have their
lives together are too busy ENJOYING life to take the time
out to teach the mass of WUSS-BAG men out there how to
stop with the purse shopping and tupperware.

Thanks again for your email... I love sharp, honest women.



***QUESTION FROM A WOMAN***

Hey, I've been receiving your emails for awhile, and have
been thinking, does this stuff work on guys as well? I'm
an attractive 18 yr old, and I don't often have problems
attracting males attention, but that’s about it. I don't
often get approached in clubs/bars, just looked at from
afar. Do guys think woman are promiscuous etc if they
make the first move? I mean does that kind of confidence
in a woman scare men off? A little help would be most
appreciated!

Ta!

JD
New Zealand

***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave,

You are the Man! It took me about a month of reading
and re-reading your book. I am (was) very shy. I really
think it was more a lack of self confidence than shy. I
think I was using the word shy because I didn't want to
admit or didn't understand that it was a lack of self
confidence. I set a target date of when I was going to
let my inhibitions go and put my (your) plan to work. I
got more email addresses and phone numbers in 3 hours
than I got in 3 years. Just felt compelled to write and
say Thanks.

Hope to see you in NY
E.M. in Va.


>>>MY COMMENTS:

I love letters like this one. Good for you!

It sounds to me like the process of getting this area of
your life handled has you pretty excited. Let it spill over
into the other areas of your life.

Great job!


***COMMENT FROM WOMAN***

Dear David,

Remember the woman that had a friend that wanted to slap
the sh** out of you - you know, the crack pipe chick? That
woman was right about one thing - someone needs to get
slapped.

She does and so do all of her milk toast, clueless and
probably dog-ugly friends! How in the world did she get
"lesbian" twisted into all of that? I read the e-mail for
crying out loud, and it sounds to me like this girl's in a
slump that makes the Devil Rays look like World Series
contenders.

Injure a woman's delicate psyche? Give me a break. I hope
you guys out there don't believe a word of this girl's
whiny crap. If your girlfriends agree with her, I hope you
don't mind turning squishy and you better find a good
recipe for strawberry daiquiris and start planning for a
life filled with tupperware parties and purse shopping.

Let me set all of you guys straight who might still
possibly be on the fence at this point. Get David's book.
I haven't read it yet - I'm still crackin' up over the
newsletter. I'm an attractive woman architect who works
in a man's world and would have it no other way! I'm
athletic, but still feminine. I'm pretty conservative and
don't cuss (anymore) so I'm proof that it's not just the
rough women that get turned on by the sport of a
challenging male. David's right - I have a lot of male
friends and most of them want to be more than friends. I
could never put my finger on it before I started reading
David's newsletters - they were nice and I've certainly
dated guys that weren't nearly as good looking as them,
but it's clear to me now. My guy friends are wusses.
Cocky + funny = SEXY! Don't ask me why, just do it. I
wish more of you would.

By the way, David, the chicks out here that read (and
appreciate) your newsletter, need a formula, too.

Sincerely,

ks in Kansas City

MM
Kentucky

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Wow, another guy who my heart goes out to.

I need to write a book called "Cut Your Dating In Half: A
guide for guys who are too successful with my materials."

I think what you need to do is get together with her and
say: "Look, you're acting like we're married, and you need
to cool it. I think you're great, but I'm not interested
in a relationship right now, so if you want to keep seeing
me, then you're going to need to chill."

I realize that it sounds a little bit harsh, but it's the
truth, and you need to be direct in a situation like this
one.

...and this about wraps it up.

If you're reading this right now and thinking to yourself:
"I'd sure like to have problems like that", then I'd
recommend that you go and download a copy of my online
eBook "Double Your Dating". You can download it directly
to your computer and be reading in a few minutes. Go to:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/ebook/

...to download it now.

And I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.



***If you'd like to send me a Success Story, Question,
or Comment, follow these guidelines***

1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs max.

2) Tell me what's working for you before you ask your
question. I appreciate all of the "Your stuff is great"
and "I don't need to tell you how well your stuff works"
comments, but the fact is that I DO need to hear all of
the specifics... because this helps other guys to see
what's working in different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write "Success Story" in
the subject line of the email. I read these first.

4) At the end of the email, give me your initials and tell
me where you're from.

5) I love emails from women!

6) Send it to me at:

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