>>>MY COMMENTS:

I'm going to have to guess at a few things, but I'll give
it a shot.

From the sounds of it, you need to:

1) Stop with the "I had a good time" type comments when
you call for a follow up. You might experiment with
waiting longer to call... or waiting less time to call.
See what works best for you. But don't be so "nice".

2) Do more things to make your date feel ATTRACTION. Use
what you've learned to really turn the dial up. You might
test progressing further on the first date... maybe start
getting physical faster.

3) Make sure you keep her laughing, and keep busting on
her and treating her like a "friend" at first. Remember
the idea of acting like she's your Bratty Little Sister.

It sounds like you're doing something on those first
dates that's making the women resistant to seeing you
again... you need to figure out what it is and STOP IT.



***QUESTION***

David,

On vacation in Mexico, a girl asked me if she was "super
hot" and I said "Yeah, you're alright." Next thing you know
she made it her business to prove to me how hot she was,
including some freaky dancing, even flashing me, and a
little lip action. Moral: Never give them what the want. I
moved in to kiss a girl a little too early and she backed
away. So I went back to teasing her and on the next attempt
I went straight for the neck, ears, hands in hair and well
you wouldn't believe it; but it worked that time. Your book
has a lot of very good information, thank you for putting it
together. So here's my question: This girl at my gym is of
those that I've always wanted to talk to but never really
had the chance. She was bartending the other night and I
told her I'd seen her at the gym. She said "yeah, but I
don't make it in there as much lately." I replied "Yeah, I
can tell, you're really letting yourself go." Then she gives
me a shot and asks me if I'd help her with her workout." She
also said she remembered me from the gym and I said "So you
were checking me out?" So I get her number, not bad, eh? So
I'm in the bar for another hour with some friends and I was
going to order a drink from her later, but it might've
seemed like I wanted to talk to her again. She seemed busy
and didn't look at me. Seemingly wuss behavior or she's just
busy? Who knows. That was on Saturday and I called her on
Wednesday, still no reply and today is Friday. I'm thinking
either calling her once more over the weekend, asking about
playing hard to get and if she just randomly gives out
shots, or maybe going back to her bar in a week or two with
some friends. Again, thank you for all you've done and
thanks in advance for any suggestions.
A.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I'm going to tell you something here, and leave it to you
to figure out why it's important:

YOU SHOULD HAVE LEFT RIGHT AFTER YOU GOT HER NUMBER.

This is SUPER ULTRA EXTRA important... and I want you to
consider it in your mind until you figure out why.