And, if you're NOT at the point where you are confident
in your skills, then you need to get my online eBook
"Double Your Dating", and read every single page. It will
teach you all the secrets your mom and dad never told you
about... and show you how to have success with women that
you only dreamed possible.

In my book I talk more about how to improve your
appearance, how to dress, and even what types of colognes
to wear...

Because they've now "been out together" she tends to
feel a lot more comfortable coming over.

I usually recommend that guys approach women, get their
email and number, and move on. You can get 5 or 10 emails
and numbers in an evening, and then have dates during the
week (where you don't have to deal with distractions,
competition, etc.).

But if you're at the point where you're confident in your
skills, and this is what you want, then try the technique I
just explained. I know more than one guy that uses it, and
it seems to be a big winner.

When they leave TOGETHER and arrive at the other bar
TOGETHER they are now "TOGETHER". It creates a completely
different psychological setting and comfort level.

When they first met, they were just two people that
happened to be at the same bar. When they got to the
next bar, they were kind of "out on a date".

To a woman, this is a HUGE difference.

Then, after spending some time at the next bar (it's
late by this point), he'll ask her for a ride home, or
maybe suggest that she come over for a drink.

ON GETTING WOMEN TO COME HOME WITH YOU

My focus isn't on "getting laid" alone, but I have a few
ideas that can help you.

A good friend once told me that a woman won't really want
to come DIRECTLY home with you. Women like to feel like
they've "been out" with you first.

So, to answer this concern, he goes out with women on
"mini dates" as soon as he meets them.

So, for instance, he might meet a woman at a bar or a
nightclub. Maybe they've had a few drinks together and
danced a few times... and things are going well.

He might suggest that they go to ANOTHER bar that's
close by...

So to answer your question: Yes, looks can make a
difference to your success. If you have such a strong and
attractive personality that you attract women no matter
what, then you can look however you want. But if you're a
regular guy like me, then do everything you can. I mean,
hey... it really doesn't cost anything to look your best!
And women definitely notice.

Generally, a stylish haircut doesn't cost any more than
an outdated haircut... but they say two completely different
things about you.

Clothes that fit correctly and flatter your particular
body type don't cost more...

Confident, dominant posture and slow, unhurried movements
don't require any more energy...

But all of these things, especially when combined and
used with other simple ideas can make a HUGE difference.

If you want to take your success with women up a notch or
two, I definitely think that it's a good idea to pay
attention to the personal presentation.

You don't have to go overboard and get plastic surgery,
liposuction, and hair implants, but a little attention to
detail can go a looooong way.

Think about it...

On to your questions...

ON LOOKS

As far as I'm concerned, LOOKS MATTER.

But interestingly enough, they matter for a different
reason than most guys think.

You see, women are always reading into things. They're
trying to figure out what things MEAN.

If a woman asks you if you have a close relationship
with your mom, she's not making casual conversation... she
wants to get deeper insight into how you handle
relationships. Are you with me?

My personal perspective is that IT'S NOT WHAT YOU'VE GOT,
IT'S HOW YOU USE IT. In other words, it's more important to
take care of yourself than it is to be naturally tall,
handsome, etc.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

You're a very, very bad man.

Kissing women you've just met on the lips?

In public?

You gotta love that.

And you're not rich or handsome? I don't believe it!

Of course, I've seen things like this happen so many
times that I actually DO believe it. In fact, most guys
would be very surprised if they realized just how open
many women are to kissing and "getting physical" when
they meet the right guy.

I have just 2 questions for ya...

1) I seem to be more successful after a nice haircut and
trimmed mustache and goa-tee and putting on a nice shirt
for clubbing. I know women look at physical after
personality but let me ask you aren't looks or appearance
still important to enhance the C & F?

2) Once the conversation is comfortable enough to where we
are actually 2 strangers kissing in public (one HOT CHICK
and one Average Joe) what can I say to get her to go home
with me?

Thanks...

V.K.

That's right! I'm sometimes kissing on the lips
(sometimes with my tongue down their throats) HOT CHICKS in
public! (I used to watch other guys do this and be envious
of them, I used to be a playa-hater) And sometimes it
happens twice or even three times with 2 or three different
girls. This especially happens when I'm freak dancing and
teasing some hot chic. I'm just waiting to take some of
these girls home from this new bar that I've been hanging
out at.

Send it to me at:

SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com



Q&A: HOW DO I GET HER TO COME HOME WITH ME?
***QUESTION***

Again, you're da man! I've found a new bar and grill here in
Miami where all of these HOT college girls hang out at. I've
been using you're C & F approach to get the conversation
going with these hot chicks and 9 times out of 10 they fall
for it every time. After about 5 minutes into the
conversation, they get this look on their face like "I can't
believe I've been actually talking to this guy this long". I
mean... look at me, I'm not buffed out or have killer abs,
just your average Joe. But then it gets better, with most
of these girls the conversation gets so funny and cute and
so comfortable that I take it to the next level "The Kissing
Test".

***If you'd like to send me a Success Story, Question,
or Comment, follow these guidelines***

1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs max.

2) Tell me what's working for you before you ask your
question. I appreciate all of the "Your stuff is great"
and "I don't need to tell you how well your stuff works"
comments, but the fact is that I DO need to hear all of
the specifics... because this helps other guys to see
what's working in different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write "Success Story" in
the subject line of the email. I read these first.

4) At the end of the email, give me your initials and tell
me where you're from.

And if you're reading this right now, and it's time for
YOU to get this part of your life handled... and finally
start enjoying the kind of success with women that you've
only dreamed about it the past, just go to:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/ebook/

...and download it now.

And I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

I think it's the best investment you'll ever make in
your dating life, personally.

And hey, it comes with a simple money-back guarantee:

If you're not 100% satisfied with your purchase, just
email and ask for a refund.... AND YOU CAN KEEP THE
BOOK AND BONUSES FOR YOUR HASSLE.

I want you to write me a success story in the future,
not ask for your money back!

So do yourself a favor, and get it while the gettin's
good...

Sign me,

Not getting enough


>>>MY COMMENTS:

I love letters like this one...

OK, to answer your first question... EVERY SINGLE LETTER
THAT I PRINT IN EVERY SINGLE ONE OF MY NEWSLETTERS IS
REAL. I NEVER INVENT THEM.

I have every one of the originals saved to prove it.

To answer one of your comments of "I can't believe that
a book can really do that much for a guy"...

IT CAN'T. The BOOK isn't what does it.

It's a combination of the material in the book and
actually TAKING ACTION ON IT AND USING IT.

It's taken me YEARS of trial and error... trying just
about everything under the sun to learn the things that
I've put in my book. I really went out there and did
the work. I tried and tested everything I could find.

*QUESTION*

Dear Dave,

I just started receiving your newsletter. And I was just
curious about the letters that are coming in. Are these
letters from real guys or is it something that 's written
by your staff just to sell your ebook? I can't honestly
believe a book can really do that much for a guy. I get
another newsletter on dating women and this guy doesn't
seem to profess the "cocky" attitude you write about.

Anyway, just to let you know who I am. I am a 50 yr young
man. I'm 5'7" , good shape and health. Have all my hair
and teeth. I'm a nice guy but I want to shed that image but
not be an asshole if you know what I mean. I don't want to
even tell you how long it's been since I've been laid. Can
your book really help a guy like me. I've been going on the
online dating seen but don't always see what I want which
is a sexy young woman. Also, how young can I acceptably go.
Anything you can tell me would be a help.

--C.K.

San Francisco, CA


>>>MY COMMENTS:

lol... the best thing you can do is GO MEET 10 MORE
WOMEN!!!

Duh!

And what are you doing writing to me asking for advice on
how to un-screw-up your situation... and you haven't even
read my book? Go to http://www.doubleyourdating.com/ebook/
NOW and get it. You are doing great, you just need to get
some of the details together.

And as for your teacher, STOP SAYING THAT YOU LIKE HER!
And start acting like the Cocky and Funny guy that make
her respond to you!

Here's the question (and problem): In addition to the "ball
busting" in my second email, I also told her I liked her!
(a big faux pas, I know, but I never expected a reply!) She
had taught a class of which I was a student, and I made a
comment like, "Well I'm probably not the first of your
students to have a crush on the teacher." Now that the
cat's out of the bag, how do I diffuse this damaging
admission? I already sent her a reply email, in which I
poured on the cocky/funny, but I wanted to get your input
and hopefully I made the right choice by my reply.

Thanks Dave!

Hey Dave,

You ARE da man! Although I have not purchased the e-book
yet, I will soon, as I have seen the magic work firsthand,
just from the newsletters I have been getting. Check this
out! About a week ago, I send an email to a totally rad
chick suggesting that we meet for coffee. I used the
movie "You've Got Mail" as part of my "schtick", and
although it was "cute" and "funny," I realized later that
it was actually quite "wussy-ish." After getting NO REPLY
for almost a week, I sent her ANOTHER email, this time
busting her balls a bit by saying, "Well I guess my
dazzling good looks and wicked sense of humor didn't catch
your fancy, eh?" The response was lightning fast and
almost instantaneous!!! She wrote that she had every
intention of returning my email, but she was "out of town"
blah blah blah, and she would meet me for coffee sometime.
I really believe that if I had not sent her that second
email, I never would have gotten a reply to the first one.

MY COMMENTS:

Oh, you can have a lot of fun with this one.

I have a good friend who can't drive up next to a woman
without flirting. He likes to "waggle his eyebrows" at
every woman he sees.

Next time you're next to a cutie, waggle your brows
and wave. When she smiles, make the old fashioned motion
of rolling down your window to her, and roll down yours.

Finally, take out your cel phone, point to it, and say
"What's your number?"

I've done variations of this myself, and had some great
fun success with it.

Dave,

Because of my job, I am on the road a lot. Lots of
times I like to drive with the windows down, music
blasting and just taking in the sun. Many times I find
myself waiting at a stop light with a good-looking
girl waiting next to me. Some of these girls, we make
eye contact, others just glance over. Sometimes I'll
drive for miles with the same girl to the side of me.
The problem is I never really know what to do next. So
I guess my question to you is this:

1. How do I get her to roll down her window?

2. Once she does, what should I tell her?

I drive an average car (VW Jetta) so I know they're
not looking at that, but I'm just uncertain how to get
her attention.

Thanks for the help.

MY COMMENTS:

Here's the answer...

List the 10 most common situations you find yourself
meeting women in... and list 10 cocky and funny things
to say in each situation.

Next, mentally rehearse each of the comments so you
have them ready!

If you are at the stage where Cocky and Funny doesn't
come "naturally", then you're going to have to PRACTICE.

Why do Michael Jordan and Tiger Woods make their sports
look EASY? Why do they TOTALLY dominate all of the other
players around them?

***QUESTION***

Hello,

Your are the man. I have been using your cocky funny
method on girls i already know and see the difference in
the way they act towards me, they seem to definatly be
more interested. My dilemma is that i run out of cocky
comments and little jokes. For eg i went to the coffee shop
yesterday with one of my buddies and there were two cute
girls in front of us who smiled at us when we where in
line and i looked back and smiled but i had no idea what
to say to them or what to make fun of and they got what
the wanted and left. I simply had no idea what funny
comment to make.