Thursday, March 08, 2007

GETTING PAST INSECURITY

So how do you go about getting past insecurity?

Great questions... and I have an exercise for you to use:

1) Go out and talk to 100 women over the next 30 days, and
keep a record of everything that happens. Talk to 3 new
women every day for 30 days.

2) DON'T make any attempts to pursue these women in a
romantic way. In fact, make sure you approach each situation
with the idea that you are NOT going to have any
interactions with the woman ever again.

3) Your only objective when talking to one of these 100
women is to MAKE THEM SMILE. A good friend of mine who goes
by the nickname of "Orion" taught me this. Your goal is to
give each woman the gift of a smile.

4) After making 100 women smile WITHOUT THE POSSIBLITY THAT
ANYTHING ELSE CAN COME IF IT, you will begin to realize that
you DO have something to offer a woman who doesn't know you,
and you'll see evidence that you can give it to her.

5) Keep a journal of all 100 interactions, so you can see
your progress.