MY COMMENTS:

Well, if I were you, I think I'd sit down and make a list
of all the kinds of conversations that you could possibly
get into with these women, then create Cocky and Funny
lines for each. Finally, come up with some great ways to
get emails and numbers.

You might say:

"Where did you find time to have all these children?"

...or some other line hinting that these are her own
children.